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How To Use AI In Change Management To Build Relational Intelligence

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Darrin Murriner

Co-Founder and CEO of Cloverleaf.me

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Change Isn’t Slowing Down—And It’s Not Getting Easier

Change is no longer episodic—it’s the new normal. Whether navigating team restructuring, leadership transitions, hybrid work shifts, or rapid growth phases, People Strategy Leaders are increasingly tasked with supporting teams through continual disruption.

The expectation: keep morale high, engagement strong, and culture intact, no matter how frequent or turbulent the transitions.

Yet here’s the reality: most managers are neither trained nor equipped to handle the deeply relational side of change. They’re expected to maintain productivity, retain talent, and safeguard organizational culture—but they’re often given training sessions that are difficult to fit into busy schedules or frameworks that are difficult to recall in the real, messy interpersonal dynamics their teams actually face every day.

People Leaders are stuck in reactive mode, stretched thin across multiple teams, stepping in to mediate friction or reinforce trust only after issues bubble up. It feels impossible to proactively guide every manager through each nuanced challenge, despite knowing how crucial these moments are for your organization’s success.

82% of HR and management professionals cite change fatigue as a top challenge.

43% of HR professionals and 30% of managers report feeling overwhelmed by the responsibility of maintaining a positive culture amid continuous change. — Lattice State of People Strategy Report (2025)

The solution isn’t yet another training initiative or a standardized playbook. Those approaches repeatedly struggle because the catalyst to lasting change is more relational than procedural.

The future demands a strategy that deeply personalizes leadership guidance based on the actual people involved, their unique personalities, communication styles, motivations, and stress responses.

Managers need tools that equip them not only to lead through uncertainty but to proactively coach their team with clarity, empathy, and confidence, precisely when and where support is needed most.

While most AI tools in change management focus on automating workflows or analyzing performance data, a new kind of AI is emerging—one that supports the human side of change.

These AI coaches don’t just streamline logistics—they help managers lead people and build relational intelligence. These tools can understand how individuals process uncertainty, give feedback, and react under pressure.

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Why Even Good Change Strategies Fall Short Today

Most change strategies rely on well-intentioned playbooks: standardized communication plans, training sessions, and leader toolkits. While these resources may outline best practices, they’re increasingly outdated in the face of continuous disruption—too generic and rigid to respond to the real-time, nuanced realities teams face daily.

  • Training is episodic and slow to adapt. Delivered periodically, traditional training loses relevance quickly, rarely translating into meaningful behavioral change, especially during high-pressure moments.

  • Change communications lack genuine personalization. Although uncertainty impacts each person uniquely, based on their personality, communication style, and emotional triggers, most messaging is broad, assuming a one-size-fits-all response.

  • Managers aren’t supported in relational intelligence. Leaders are expected to resolve interpersonal friction, rebuild trust, and motivate teams through ambiguity, but traditional methods provide few practical tools or real-time insights tailored to actual team dynamics.

  • HR Leaders can’t sustainably fill every gap. Despite their strategic oversight, PSLs can’t realistically manage the nuanced interpersonal challenges across numerous teams—yet they’re often held accountable for maintaining organizational clarity, cohesion, and confidence.

88% of HR leaders say shifting priorities are a top contributor to burnout—for themselves and for their managers.

The consequence? Managers default to “survival mode,” emphasizing tasks over trust and inadvertently amplifying tension, resistance, and disengagement. Change fatigue deepens, leaving PSLs overwhelmed and isolated, carrying burdens no individual team can manage alone.

The answer isn’t to throw out your existing strategies, but to complement them with something that fills their gaps—tools that equip managers to handle the relational and emotional dimensions of change confidently, proactively, and in the moment.

This is where the next evolution of AI in change management can have the biggest impact—supporting the emotional and interpersonal dynamics that traditional tools can’t touch.

Imagine a manager heading into a team meeting after a major reorg.

👉 A typical tool might offer a facilitation framework or an agenda template.

✅ But an AI coach could do more—it could surface coaching insights tailored to the actual people in the room:

  • A heads-up that one team member (who thrives on stability) may need more clarity on next steps.

  • A nudge to use collaborative language with someone who’s naturally assertive in group settings.

  • A reminder that a typically quiet team member may be internalizing stress and won’t speak up unless invited.

These aren’t hypotheticals. They’re examples of how AI coaching can be built on personality science and relational intelligence practices, not just task automation.

This is what it looks like to move from reactive leadership to proactive guidance—in the flow of work, when it matters most.

No new programs to manage. No heavy lift for you or your teams. Just practical, personalized insights exactly when and where they make the biggest difference.

Why Managers Are the Linchpin—and the Risk Point—in Change Initiatives

Managers are on the front lines of change. They’re the ones fielding the unspoken worries after all-hands meetings. They’re navigating tough 1:1s when motivation drops, tensions rise, or trust erodes. In moments of uncertainty, it’s not HR that people turn to—it’s their manager.

And while most managers are capable, few are equipped to coach people through the emotional weight of change. They’re used to delivering outcomes, managing tasks, and keeping things moving. But when relational dynamics surface—conflict, resistance, disengagement—many default to what feels safest: get through the checklist and avoid rocking the boat.

Managers play a pivotal role in executing change management plans, acting as advocates and facilitators who can help reduce friction and increase adoption.

The problem isn’t that managers don’t care. It’s that they rarely have the visibility, support, or tools to handle the emotional and relational side of leadership—especially in fast-moving, high-stakes environments.

They might not notice when someone starts to withdraw. Or they might power through a conversation that actually needed patience and empathy. Even well-intentioned managers can unintentionally damage trust—just by missing the emotional nuance.

And People Strategy Leaders? You often get pulled in to patch it up. To coach the leader. But with so many teams to support and only so many hours in the day, you’re left managing the loudest problems—or the ones already on fire.

That’s why more and more teams are implementing micro-coaching platforms. Not as a new initiative to manage, but as a way to embed leadership support directly into the moments that matter.

The right AI coaching tools can eliminate the relational guesswork that can happen in the midst of managing organizational change. They give managers timely coaching insights—tailored to how each person on their team thinks, communicates, and handles stress—so they can lead more effectively without becoming full-time coaches themselves.

This is how leaders move from reactive support to proactive leadership. Not with more theory. But with in-the-flow, psychometric-powered insights that help managers build trust, reduce resistance, and lead with clarity, every single day.

What Micro-Coaching Means—and Why It Is More Effective In Times of Change

Micro-coaching helps your people lead better, in real time.

It doesn’t require managers to memorize frameworks or master new models. Instead, it equips them with relational awareness in the moments that matter—when trust is built, engagement wavers, or team dynamics get tense.

This isn’t about adding more to their plate.
It’s about delivering the right insight at the right time—so they can lead with empathy, adapt with confidence, and build trust without second-guessing themselves.

Micro-coaching helps managers:

  • Adjust their communication style based on how each team member processes stress, uncertainty, or change
  • Approach 1:1s, feedback, and friction with confidence, not fear of misfiring
  • Strengthen trust through consistent, human-centered interactions—not scripts or generic training modules

And it doesn’t require more meetings, more certifications, or more prep work.

What it requires is real-time, personalized coaching insight—delivered in the flow of work.

Imagine a manager heading into a tough 1:1. Instead of guessing how a team member might react to feedback, they receive a brief, personalized coaching tip:

This individual is naturally sensitive to criticism—start by affirming their contributions, then move into specific opportunities to improve.

👉 It’s a small nudge. But it changes the tone, the trust, and the outcome of the entire conversation.

👉 It helps leaders turn everyday interactions into moments of meaningful interactions.

👉 It helps managers do what People Strategy Leaders have been trying to scale for years: leadership that’s relational, personalized, and consistent, especially in the face of uncertainty.

How To Scale Manager Support—Without Burning Out

People Strategy Leaders already know what great leadership looks like in times of change. The challenge isn’t identifying it—it’s scaling it.

When you’re supporting dozens of teams, you don’t need another playbook or training to administer. You need tools that coach with your managers—automatically, in real time—so you can stop being the only one holding the culture together.

Tools like these embed relational intelligence into daily routines, so your managers get the insight to lead better and have more time to focus on moving the needle on initiatives that matter the most because people have a shared language that lends to collaborative teamwork.

What AI Coaching Can Do

The next evolution of change support is agentic AI coaching that actively understands your people, predicts friction, and gives managers the tools to lead through it. What’s emerging is even more powerful—AI that acts like a real partner to your managers. Not by replacing them, but by coaching alongside them through the interpersonal complexity of everyday work.

Here’s how some AI is already helping teams navigate change management:

When This Happens…
How AI Coaching Can Help
A manager needs to prepare for a tough meeting
Surface who’s likely to resist change, who needs clarity, and who may disengage silently—based on real personality data
A teammate is frustrated or feeling misunderstood
Offer context-specific coaching on how to navigate relational tension, including suggested language and tone
A manager wants to give better feedback
Help write, time, and deliver feedback in a way that lands—tailored to the recipient’s personality and preferences
A leader wants to rebuild trust with someone
Recommend trust-building actions, guide reflection afterward, and suggest recognition that feels meaningful to the other person
Someone feels isolated in a remote team
Offer nudges to stay connected in ways that feel natural to them—without forcing awkward interactions
A manager wants to help a team member grow
Suggest skill-building opportunities and communication strategies based on motivation profiles and goals
A reorg or change initiative is coming
Analyze team dynamics and predict emotional and relational impact—before the change is communicated
A team is adopting a new process or policy
Interpret the rollout through the lens of how different team members will process the change—and how to preemptively support them

Cloverleaf gives you that structure, without spinning up a new initiative. These tools are already built, already delivering insights, and already integrated into the way your teams work.

Don’t Just Track Participation, Track Progress That’s Invisible to Most Tools

55% of HR professionals say engagement is a top priority, but many lack the tools to support long-term resilience.

Typical change metrics—like training attendance, survey scores, or system adoption—tell you who clicked, checked in, or showed up.

But they don’t tell you the one thing People Strategy Leaders actually care about: Are your people getting better at navigating change together?

That’s the real story beneath the dashboards. Because in times of disruption, what matters most isn’t participation. Its capability:

  • Can managers hold trust during tension?
  • Can teams communicate clearly through ambiguity?
  • Can individuals stay engaged when things get messy?

These are the outcomes that shape culture, not just during a change rollout, but long after.

Not through more forms or status updates, but through behavioral signals embedded into daily work:

  • Coaching Tip Engagement: Are managers using relational insights to guide how they lead? (And how often?)

  • Insight Search Patterns: Are people looking for better ways to give feedback, repair trust, or solve friction?

  • Culture Pulse Shifts: Are teams maintaining alignment, or showing early signs of fragmentation?

Coaching with Insight Is the Manager Superpower for Modern Teams

What makes change hard isn’t the plan—it’s the people part.

Even with the right timeline, a solid comms strategy, and executive alignment, change falls apart when trust breaks down, feedback goes sideways, or people quietly disengage.

Most managers aren’t trained to handle that part.
They’re good at keeping projects on track—but not always equipped to spot emotional resistance, adapt their communication, or coach someone through uncertainty.

That’s why the next generation of leadership isn’t just strategic.

It’s relational.

Managers need insight into how their people think, feel, and work—so they can lead with empathy when it matters most.

Modern change leadership demands:

❌ Less theory.

➕ More traction.

❌ Less one-size-fits-all.

➕ More support that meets people where they are.

That’s exactly what AI-powered coaching in change management is designed to deliver. Personalized guidance, rooted in how their people actually think, communicate, and respond under pressure, surfaced right when they need it.

This is how leadership scales during change.

Not through top-down programs, but through managers who know how to lead with clarity, empathy, and relational intelligence in the moments that matter.

And that’s what your managers need from you now: Support that helps them lead people, not just manage plans.

🙋 FAQ

Q: What if our managers avoid conflict or don’t even see it coming?

A: Most do. That’s why empowering them to be proactive leaders is so necessary. It’s about equipping them with real-time, relational insight—before moments of friction—so they can respond with empathy instead of escalation.

Q: How is this different from the coaching tips in our LMS or HRIS?

A: Those systems deliver static, one-size-fits-all content. This is different. These insights are personalized, based on how each person thinks, communicates, and processes change, and delivered in the exact moment they’re needed.

Q: Can this actually scale across hundreds of teams?

A: Yes. It’s already doing so. This isn’t a new system managers have to learn—it integrates into tools your teams already use (like email, calendars, and collaboration platforms), so leadership development happens without overhead.

Q: Is this just for high-stakes change moments, or every day?

A: It’s built for both. Change just makes the stakes visible. But relational dynamics—trust, tension, communication gaps—play out daily. This gives your managers what they need to lead through all of it.

Q: What signals or metrics will we actually see?

A: You’ll see the problems your people care most about solving and how actively they are getting coached, not just whether they logged in. Cloverleaf tracks:

  • Coaching tip engagement: Are people acting on guidance in the moment?
  • Insight Search behavior: Are managers seeking smarter ways to lead?
  • Culture Pulse shifts: Are teams holding alignment, or showing early signs of resistance?

These behavioral indicators give you visibility into growth oriented actions, not just participation.

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Darrin Murriner

Darrin Murriner is the co-founder and CEO of Cloverleaf.me - a technology platform that brings automated team coaching to the entire enterprise through real-time, customized coaching in the tools employees use daily (calendar, email & Slack / Teams). The result is better collaboration, improved employee relationships, and a more engaged workforce. Before starting Cloverleaf, Darrin had a 15-year corporate career that spanned Munich Re, Arthur Andersen, and Fifth Third Bank. Darrin is also the author of Corporate Bravery, a book focused on helping leaders avoid fear-based decision-making.