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Enneagram Type 1, The Reformer: More Than a Perfectionist

You see what others miss—the inefficiencies, the broken systems, the unfairness. Where others accept things as they are, you can’t help but see what needs to be fixed.

But here’s the thing—your high standards aren’t just about perfectionism. They’re about making things right, ensuring fairness, and upholding integrity in everything you do.

Whether it’s fixing inefficiencies, championing ethical decisions, or simply making sure the details aren’t overlooked, you’re wired to create order and improvement.

But with that drive comes pressure. The weight of responsibility. The frustration when others don’t seem to care as much. The voice in your head that says, “If I don’t do it, who will?”

You’re not just about rules and structure—you’re about purpose. And that’s what makes you a Reformer. This guide will show you how to maximize your strengths, avoid burnout, and grow in ways that let you lead without carrying the world on your shoulders.

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Core Motivations & Fears of Type 1s

A common misconception about Type 1s is that they’re just rigid perfectionists who can’t let things go. In reality, Ones aren’t obsessed with rules for the sake of rules. You’re motivated by a deep internal compass that pushes you to uphold fairness, justice, and improvement—whether that’s in your work, relationships, or personal growth.

Type 1s are one of the most common Enneagram types, making up 15% of over 883,560 Cloverleaf Enneagram respondents. You’re the people who keep teams and organizations running with integrity, helping to build systems that work not just efficiently but ethically.

But beneath these motivations lie some powerful fears:

  • Fear of being morally flawed—that you might be “bad” or “not good enough.”
  • Fear of making critical mistakes—especially those that could compromise your integrity or let others down.
  • Fear of disorder or failure—when things feel out of control, it can trigger deep frustration and stress.
  • Fear of unfairness or corruption—seeing people or systems operate dishonestly is especially painful for you.

In this guide, we’ll dive deep into what makes Type 1s tick—your strengths, challenges, and how you can grow without feeling like you have to carry the weight of the world alone.

Strengths of Enneagram Type 1: The Reformer

As a Type 1, your strengths don’t just make you a reliable person—they make you a force for good in the world. You’re not just about structure and order; you bring integrity, discipline, and a clear vision for how things should be.

Core Strengths of Enneagram 1

☘️ High Integrity – You hold yourself to high moral and ethical standards. If you say you’ll do something, you mean it.

☘️ Reliable & Responsible – People know they can count on you to follow through, meet deadlines, and do things the right way.

☘️ Driven by Purpose – You don’t just work hard for the sake of it. You believe in meaningful work and want to contribute to something bigger than yourself.

☘️ Sharp Attention to Detail – Whether it’s catching a small mistake or refining a process, you have an eye for accuracy that others appreciate.

☘️ Efficient & Organized – You thrive on structure and naturally create order out of chaos, making you an essential part of any team or project.

☘️ Passionate About Improvement – Whether it’s yourself, your work, or the systems around you, you’re always looking for ways to make things better.

What This Means in Work & Life

Your strengths make you a natural leader, even if you don’t see yourself that way. You set the bar for quality and help others operate at their best. But these same strengths can also turn into growth areas if taken too far—perfectionism, burnout, or being too critical (we’ll cover that in the next section).

💡 Coaching Insight: Your high standards set the bar for excellence—but they don’t have to be a solo effort. The best leaders create a culture of shared responsibility rather than carrying the weight alone. Instead of stepping in to ‘fix’ things, experiment with coaching:

  • Instead of doing it yourself, Ask, ‘What support do you need to get this right?’
  • Instead of correcting a mistake silently, Say, ‘Here’s one way to make this even better next time.’

Challenges & Growth Opportunities for Enneagram Type 1

Your drive for excellence makes you a powerful force—but it also makes you your own toughest critic. You hold yourself to a higher standard than anyone else, and that relentless pressure can leave you feeling frustrated, overworked, or even resentful. So how do you maintain your high standards without sacrificing your well-being?

⚠️ Common Challenges for Type 1s

👉 Perfectionism & Self-Criticism – You set high standards, but when things don’t go as planned, you can be hard on yourself and others.

👉 Struggles with Delegation – Because you like things done right, it’s hard to trust that others will meet your standards. This can lead to taking on too much and feeling resentful.

👉 Frustration with Imperfection – You see how things should be, and it can be exhausting when reality doesn’t match your ideals. Rigid thinking can make it difficult to adapt.

👉 Work-Life Balance Struggles – Your deep sense of responsibility makes it hard to “turn off” work mode. Relaxation can feel unproductive, but it’s essential for your well-being.

👉 Unexpressed Anger & Resentment – Type 1s often repress their frustration, leading to simmering resentment. Learning to express your emotions in a healthy way can improve relationships and reduce stress.

🌱 Growth Strategies for Type 1s

Challenge Your Inner Critic – Instead of focusing on what’s wrong, practice acknowledging what’s working. Self-compassion helps you grow without burnout.

Embrace “Good Enough” – Perfection isn’t always necessary. Ask yourself: Will this still be effective if it’s 90% done?

Practice Letting Go – You don’t have to fix everything. Focus on what you can control, and release what you can’t.

Delegate & Trust Others – Perfection isn’t a solo act. Letting go of control can actually make you more effective in the long run.

Prioritize Self-Care – Rest, creativity, and play aren’t distractions—they make you sharper and more balanced. Schedule time for things that bring you joy.

Express Frustration Before It Builds Up – Instead of repressing anger, find healthy ways to voice your concerns without criticism—it will strengthen your relationships.

💡 Coaching Insight: Type 1s thrive when they have clear expectations and high standards, but their inner critic and perfectionism can lead to burnout. Building in self-compassion and flexibility allows them to sustain long-term success without feeling constantly overburdened.

Type 1 at Work: Strengths & Strategies for Success

Enneagram Type 1s bring a structured, ethical, and disciplined approach to their work. Whether leading a team, managing projects, or driving change, they hold themselves (and others) to high standards and ensure things are done the right way.

How Ones Lead

  • Lead by example—hardworking, ethical, and principled.
  • Expect excellence but may struggle to delegate.
  • Motivate teams by upholding fairness and integrity.

How Ones Work on a Team

  • Ensure consistency, structure, and follow-through.
  • Organize tasks, create efficient systems, and uphold accountability.
  • Can become frustrated when others don’t match their work ethic.

Biggest Workplace Challenge:

🛠 Letting Go of the “If I Don’t Do It, It Won’t Be Done Right” Mindset

Type 1s are incredibly reliable leaders, but that can sometimes translate into taking on too much. If you’ve ever stayed late fixing someone else’s work instead of coaching them to improve, you know this struggle well.

📍 Example: Imagine you’re leading a project, and a teammate submits a draft that’s good but not perfect. Your instinct? Fix it yourself. But what if, instead, you gave clear, constructive feedback and let them refine it? This not only frees up your time but also develops a culture of shared excellence rather than solo perfectionism.

Communication Style

  • Thoughtful and well-structured in their messaging.
  • Focused on accuracy and clarity, but can come across as too direct or critical.
  • Benefit from softening feedback and recognizing effort over just results.

Ideal Work Environments for Type 1s

You thrive in environments that value structure, integrity, and precision—where work is done thoroughly, not just quickly. Some of the best industries for Type 1s include:

✔️ Law & Compliance

✔️ Education & Academia

✔️ Research & Policy Development

✔️ Healthcare & Medicine

✔️ Nonprofits & Ethical Advocacy

☘️ How Cloverleaf’s Enneagram Tips Can Help You:

You don’t need another one-time personality report—you need daily coaching insights that show up right when you need them. Whether it’s learning to give feedback effectively, delegating with confidence, or balancing high standards with self-care, Cloverleaf helps you grow as a leader without sacrificing who you are.

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💡 Coaching Insight: Ones can become resentful if they perceive others as less committed or disciplined at work. Managing expectations, focusing on progress over perfection, and recognizing different work styles help prevent burnout and frustration.

Type 1 in Relationships: Communication & Emotional Growth

Enneagram Type 1s bring steadfast commitment, responsibility, and deep care to their relationships. They believe love is shown through doing the right thing, showing up consistently, and helping others improve—sometimes without realizing how their high standards can come across.

How Type 1s Express Care

  • Through acts of service, dependability, and unwavering loyalty.
  • Helping their partner or loved ones stay organized, disciplined, and on track.
  • Offering constructive feedback and problem-solving (though it may feel like criticism to others).

How Type 1s Receive Care Best

  • Feeling appreciated for their efforts and high standards.
  • Being told they are “good enough” just as they are—not just for what they do.
  • Having their values and sense of integrity affirmed by those they care about.

⚠ Potential Relationship Struggles

  • Unintentionally critical—because they care deeply, they may focus on how things can improve rather than celebrating what’s already good.
  • Can become frustrated when partners or loved ones don’t share their level of discipline or attention to detail.
  • May have a hard time relaxing and simply enjoying the moment.

Practical Relational Tip for Type 1s

Shifting from Criticism to Connection

When you care about someone, you want to help them improve—but your feedback can sometimes feel like a report card instead of encouragement.

Instead of focusing on what’s wrong, shift to what’s possible:

🚫 ‘That’s not the right way to do it.’

‘Want to see a trick I use to make this easier?’

🚫 ‘Why didn’t you just do it this way?’

‘I’d love to understand how you approached this—can you walk me through it?’

🚫 ‘You never listen to my advice.’

‘Hey, I noticed something that might help—want to hear it?’

By reframing correction as collaboration, you encourage change without making people feel judged.

💡 Coaching Insight: Ones prefer direct, constructive conversations but can struggle with receiving feedback that feels like criticism. Learning to see feedback as helpful, not personal, allows for deeper connection and growth in relationships.

Stress & Growth Paths for Type 1s

Under Stress: When the Inner Critic Takes Over

When overwhelmed, Type 1s move toward the reactive emotions of Type 4. This can look like:

  • Feeling misunderstood → “No one else seems to care as much as I do.”
  • Becoming overly self-critical → “I should be able to handle this better.”
  • Withdrawing or isolating → “If I can’t do it right, I won’t do it at all.”
  • Frustration turning inward → Instead of expressing anger, they may spiral into resentment, shame, or melancholy.

💡 Coaching Tip: Stress makes Type 1s hyper-aware of flaws—both their own and others’. When you catch yourself ruminating or feeling isolated, pause and ask:

Am I being fair to myself? Would I say this to a friend?

What is one thing I can let go of right now?

Progress happens when you allow yourself to be human, not just ‘right.’

In Growth: Embracing the Joy of Type 7

At their best, Type 1s integrate the lightness and adaptability of Type 7. Growth looks like:

  • Letting go of rigid control and trusting the process.
  • Finding joy in spontaneity instead of needing every step planned.
  • Experimenting instead of perfecting—knowing failure is part of learning.
  • Balancing responsibility with play—realizing rest fuels productivity.

💡 Coaching Tip: Try a “healthy risk” this week. Instead of over-preparing or over-editing, ask yourself:

What’s one thing I can say ‘yes’ to without overanalyzing?

How can I approach this with curiosity rather than pressure?

💭 Reminder: You don’t have to choose between high standards and joy—you can have both.

Key to Managing Stress: The Power of Imperfection

The real growth path for Type 1s isn’t about lowering standards—it’s about recognizing when ‘good enough’ is actually good enough.

  • Shift from self-criticism to self-compassion → Talk to yourself the way you would mentor someone else.
  • Schedule joy, not just work → Give yourself permission to enjoy the process, not just the outcome.
  • Redefine ‘progress’ → Improvement isn’t about fixing everything—it’s about learning and adapting.

💡 Coaching Insight: Type 1s thrive when they balance discipline with self-kindness. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, ask yourself:

Am I holding myself to an impossible standard?

❓ How would I handle this if I weren’t afraid of mistakes?

The fastest way to grow isn’t through more control—it’s through trust, adaptability, and giving yourself grace.

Coaching Tips for Type 1s

1. Shift from Overworking to Sustainable Impact

Try this: Instead of taking on everything yourself, identify one task per week that you can delegate—without rewriting or fixing it afterward.

💡 Coaching Insight: Type 1s excel at quality control, but burnout happens when they don’t let others contribute. Delegating isn’t about lowering standards—it’s about helping others step up.

2. Reframing Feedback: From Critique to Collaboration

Try this: Before giving feedback, ask yourself: Am I focusing on improvement, or does this sound like criticism? Then, start with a positive affirmation before offering guidance.

Coaching Insight: Ones often expect direct feedback but struggle when receiving it—practicing curiosity instead of defensiveness can help. Instead of jumping to correction, try asking: “Can you walk me through your thought process?”

3. Self-Compassion as a Tool for Growth

Try this: When your inner critic gets loud, pause and ask, Would I say this to a friend? Reframing self-talk builds resilience and prevents burnout.

💡 Coaching Insight: Ones’ harsh self-judgment leads to stress—building self-compassion helps them sustain high standards without the guilt. Try celebrating wins before moving to what needs fixing.

4. Building Trust in Teamwork: Learning to Let Go

Try this: Instead of correcting a teammate’s approach immediately, ask them about their thought process first. You might find their method is just different—not wrong.

💡 Coaching Insight: Ones feel most frustrated when others don’t share their level of discipline—but learning to appreciate different strengths makes them stronger leaders. Try noticing what’s working before pointing out what’s not.

How Cloverleaf Helps Type 1s Thrive

You already know how to set high standards and push for excellence. But sustaining success without burnout requires more than just hard work—it requires balance, adaptability, and trust.

☘️ Cloverleaf’s personalized coaching insights help Type 1s:

Balance perfectionism with adaptability—learning when “good enough” is truly enough.

Improve communication & feedback skills so guidance feels supportive, not critical.

Develop leadership without micromanaging—trusting others while still upholding integrity.

Reduce stress and embrace flexibility—so high standards don’t come at the cost of well-being.

👉  And the best part? These insights don’t sit in a report—you get them exactly when you need them. Whether it’s a reminder before a meeting, a coaching tip in your inbox, or a team insight inside your daily tools, Cloverleaf keeps you growing in real time.

Want to learn about the rest of the Enneagram Types? Read more about the Enneagram: 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9!

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The Enneagram is a useful tool for building stronger, more connected teams. By understanding each person’s core motivations, communication styles, and stress responses, teams can improve collaboration, resolve conflict more effectively, and create a culture where everyone thrives.

But knowing your type isn’t enough. The hard part — and the part most teams get wrong — is making Enneagram insight show up in the daily moments that actually shape how a team works together. According to a DDI webinar poll cited by Peggy Murriner in her piece on choosing the right personality assessment, 53% of HR and L&D professionals say the top reason personality assessments fail to drive development is “lots of data, but no clear next steps.” The data exists. Nobody knows what to do with it.

The four activities below are designed to close that gap. Each one is an action you can run with your team this month, paired with the underlying logic for why it works. They help your team:

  • ✅ Understand each other’s work styles for better collaboration.
  • ✅ Navigate conflict with more awareness and empathy.
  • ✅ Run more productive meetings by leveraging different strengths.
  • ✅ Reinforce Enneagram insight in the flow of work — not just at the workshop.

If you’re looking for a type-by-type reference (how each Enneagram type shows up at work — communication style, stress responses, strengths, growth patterns), see How to Use the Enneagram in the Workplace to Develop All Nine Types. This article focuses on what to do as a team. The companion article covers what each type is.

Creating space for these conversations might feel uncomfortable at first, but the long-term benefit of a more cohesive, engaged team makes the effort worth it.

Get the Enneagram Guide To Healthy Teams to see how high performing teams use the enneagram to improve teamwork.

4 Enneagram team building activities

1. Use a messaging channel to share what the team is learning about different types

Start a Slack channel, Microsoft Teams thread, or recurring email digest where teammates share what they’re learning about themselves and one another. Affirming and recognizing new insights is a low-effort, high-leverage way to celebrate and reinforce a healthy team culture.

Why this works:

A decade of research by organizational psychologist Tasha Eurich found that 95% of people believe they’re self-aware, but only about 10–15% actually are. That gap closes only when self-awareness becomes a shared team practice — not an individual exercise. A teammate who hears their colleagues describe what they’re learning about themselves gets calibration data they can’t generate alone. Over time, the team builds a shared language for behavioral differences.

Self-awareness has business consequences. A Korn Ferry study of 6,977 professionals across 486 publicly traded companies found that organizations with self-aware leaders consistently outperformed peers on financial measures. The “soft” stuff isn’t soft — it’s the foundation of how decisions get made under pressure.

How to run it:

  • Create a dedicated channel — #enneagram-learnings, #what-i-noticed-this-week, whatever feels right for your culture.
  • Seed it with three or four prompts from the team lead in the first two weeks: “This week I noticed my Type 6 default kicked in when [specific situation]. Here’s what I tried instead.”
  • Invite — don’t require — participation. Vulnerability that’s mandated stops being vulnerable.
  • Refresh prompts monthly so the channel doesn’t become stale.

The activity reinforces the Enneagram insight your team has already absorbed. The channel becomes the system that keeps the insight active and visible after the workshop ends.

2. Build an enneagram type map to indicate each team member’s number

Recognizing the makeup of your team illuminates strengths and growth areas, helps you anticipate how different team members will react in shared situations, and gives the team a quick reference when conflict surfaces.

Why this works:

Behavior change research consistently shows that insight which isn’t reinforced at the moment of application doesn’t change behavior. Within a week of a typical workshop, participants retain as little as 20% of what they learned. A team Enneagram map fights against learning decay by giving the team an artifact they can return to in real moments — before a 1:1, during a tense Slack thread, when staffing a project.

What makes learnings from the Enneagram stick is having the type-level insight available the moment someone needs it.

How to run it:

Path A: DIY (for teams not yet using a behavioral platform)

  • Confirm each team member’s type (with their consent — Enneagram type is personal data, not org chart data).
  • Build the map as a Notion page or shared doc that’s editable, not a static PDF.
  • Add a one-line “what they typically need” note next to each name (e.g., “Type 5: needs context before commitment; appreciates async processing time”).
  • Share it with the team and revisit it quarterly — types don’t change, but team composition does.

Path B: Activate Cloverleaf’s Team Enneagram dashboard

If your team is already using Cloverleaf — or you’re evaluating it — the Team Enneagram view does this work automatically. Each team member’s headshot appears placed on the Enneagram symbol at their type. The dashboard surfaces the team’s triad distribution at a glance: how much of your team sits in the Head Triad (Types 5, 6, 7 — analytical, planning-focused), the Gut Triad (Types 8, 9, 1 — instinct, action-oriented), and the Heart Triad (Types 2, 3, 4 — relational, image-aware).

That triad-level read often reveals patterns the team doesn’t consciously see. A team that’s 46% Head / 29% Gut / 26% Heart will spend more energy stress-testing plans than executing them. A team weighted toward Heart will spend more cycles managing how things land than what gets decided. Knowing the distribution explains friction patterns the team would otherwise misread as personality issues.

The dashboard is live — when team composition changes, the map updates. When new members take the assessment, they appear automatically. And because it lives inside the same platform that delivers coaching nudges in Slack, Teams, Outlook, and Workday, the type-level insight is available in the moments where behavior is forming — not stored in a doc someone has to remember to open.

👉 Learn more about how Cloverleaf’s AI Coach works →

3. Facilitate team discussions using questions that highlight strengths

Block time on the calendar for a focused team discussion using prepared conversation starters. The structure prevents the “we’ll discuss it sometime” pattern that kills good intentions, and the questions themselves should pull strengths forward rather than lead with gaps.

Why this works:

A landmark meta-analysis by Kluger and DeNisi examined 607 studies on feedback and found that roughly one in three feedback conversations actually decreases performance afterward — not because the feedback was wrong, but because the framing made it land as a threat to identity rather than as information. When Enneagram-themed discussions are framed around what’s wrong with each type (“Type 1 perfectionism is annoying,” “Type 8 directness is too much”), the framework becomes a vehicle for identity threat instead of self-awareness. The fix is structuring the conversation around strengths and contributions, not flaws.

How to run it:

Designate a 60-minute meeting. Pose two or three of these questions and rotate through team members:

  • When you make decisions, how does your type’s natural lens show up? Where does it serve the team well?

     

  • Share a specific moment when you noticed a teammate using their type’s strengths in a way that helped the work.

     

  • What’s one positive example of how Enneagram awareness has helped you collaborate with someone on this team?

     

  • Describe what conditions help you do your best work — and how your type explains those preferences.

     

  • What unique contribution do you notice each teammate making? Be specific.

     

  • What about your type’s motivation pattern affects how you show up under pressure?

     

  • In what way is shared self-awareness changing how this team operates day-to-day?

Limit the conversation to two or three questions per session. Depth beats coverage.

4. Use technology to activate Enneagram insight in the flow of work

Most assessment platforms stop at the report — and that’s where most Enneagram team programs lose momentum. The activity instructions above all share a common dependency: they require team members to remember the insight at the moment that matters. That’s a lot to ask of someone preparing for a hard 1:1 at 9:50 on a Tuesday morning.

Why this works:

Modern AI coaching platforms can deliver Enneagram insight directly into the tools your team already uses. As Peggy Murriner’s analysis of how companies use the Enneagram and AI to develop leaders explains, the manager doesn’t need the insight at the workshop. They need it Tuesday at 9:50, before the 1:1 with the direct report whose work just got publicly questioned. They need it Thursday afternoon, before they reply to the cross-functional partner who has been pushing back.

Static reports put the entire burden on the team member to remember what they read, interpret it correctly, and apply it in the moment. Most won’t — not because they don’t care, but because they’re moving between six meetings and a full inbox. As Kirsten Moorefield’s piece on AI coaching with behavioral assessment integration makes clear: when validated assessments are integrated as a foundational data layer, AI coaching can move from pattern-based guidance to personalized, context-aware insight that helps people respond more effectively in real moments of stress, pressure, and teamwork.

How Cloverleaf brings Enneagram insight into the flow of work:

  • A shared team dashboard so everyone can see how different types interact, communicate, and make decisions

     

  • Coaching nudges in Slack, Microsoft Teams, Outlook, and Workday — arriving before 1:1s, during difficult conversations, and after team meetings

     

  • Specific guidance on how each teammate handles stress and growth based on their type, surfaced when it’s relevant

     

  • Integration with the validated assessments your organization already owns — DISC, 16 Types, CliftonStrengths, Insights Discovery — not just Enneagram in isolation

That’s the architecture of activation: the data your team already has becomes context that arrives at the moment it matters, instead of a report that get’s lost in a folder.

👉 Take the free Enneagram assessment on Cloverleaf to start, or see how Cloverleaf turns assessment results into daily coaching for your team.

How to ensure the impact of Enneagram activities influences your team

The four activities above can help change how your team talks about itself.

What it could be less effective at changing, on their own, is how your team behaves on Tuesday morning.

A lot of teams can run incredible Enneagram offsites — the kind where two people who’ve been quietly resenting each other for a year finally see what’s been happening between them. Real understanding. Real apologies. Real intent to do things differently.

A week later, they’re right back where they started.

That isn’t a problem with the framework. The Enneagram is doing exactly what it’s supposed to do. The problem is what team members are expected to do with it once the meeting ends — essentially, “remember this in the moments it matters, while you’re rushing between calendar blocks and Slack threads.”

That’s a lot to ask of anyone.

The four activities are great starting points. The system that puts the insight in front of the team at the moment it matters is what makes them stick.

What’s one moment in your team’s week where the right insight, at the right time, would actually change what happens next?

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Hard times are unique opportunities to deepen relationships. But we may not know how to get a deep and vulnerable conversation started, especially in a work environment.

Using Enneagram group discussion questions can help individuals and team members learn more about one another. If you or a coworker do not know your Enneagram type, take our free assessment to help guide your conversation.

In all meaningful discussions, there are two roles – the listener and the processor. One person should be the processor for all three questions, while all others practice as listeners.

The listener’s main role is to…listen! Listening can be difficult. When someone shares their experience, it’s normal to want to respond quickly with something like, “Me too. I was thinking….”

However, this attempt to relate quickly can unintentionally prohibit the other person’s ability to continue processing. The listener must resist the urge and focus on listening. The listener can ask clarifying questions to help keep all focus on the processor, giving them safe space and time to think out loud.

The processor’s main role is to…process! The processor should try to elaborate and avoid giving one-sentence answers. Be curious about yourself, honest about difficult insights, and hopeful about how discussing the Enneagram can help you discover your unique work style and motivations.

Below are three Enneagram group discussion questions that can help you use the Enneagram at work or with friends to increase personal growth and development.

Note: Before starting, the listener will need to know the processor’s enneagram type.

Question #1: Listener asks Processor: “As an Enneagram Type ____, your core fear is likely ____. In what ways do you think that can affect you?”

For reference, below are the core fears of each Enneagram Type.

Enneagram 1: Being corrupt, losing a sense of integrity; being wrong or lazy

Enneagram 2: Being unloved or unwanted

Enneagram 3: Being worthless or undesirable apart from achievements; being disrespected

Enneagram 4: Not being unique and being seen as worthless for this

Enneagram 5: Being helpless or incompetent; not being knowledgeable

Enneagram 6: Not have direction or support; not be able to keep going on their own; uncertainty

Enneagram 7: Needs and wants are not fulfilled by others; pain; deprivation

Enneagram 8: Being limited or controlled

Enneagram 9: Being disconnected from others, being confronted

Do you need help navigating your work relationships or developing a work culture where people can thrive? Download the free Enneagram Guide To Healthy Teams In The Workplace.

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Question #2: The Listener asks the Processor: “As an Enneagram Type ____, you’re likely motivated by ____. What are two things you can do this week that motivate you?”

For reference, below are the core motivations of each Enneagram Type.

Enneagram 1: Solving problems and bringing order and organization to chaos

Enneagram 2: Helping others

Enneagram 3: Optimism and achieving goals

Enneagram 4: Creativity, finding deeper meaning, and experiencing authentic feelings

Enneagram 5: Learning and having a deep knowledge of topics

Enneagram 6: Creating and finding security, having a duty or responsibility to complete something

Enneagram 7: Being happy and contributing to the world to relieve suffering

Enneagram 8: Being self-reliant and fighting for just causes

Enneagram 9: Keeping the peace and connecting others

Question #3: The listener asks the Processor: “As a friend (or coworker), what is the best way I can help you with this?”

Whether you are a new manager hoping to build trust or a coworker who wants to understand a teammate better, asking these three questions can lead to powerful learning about one another.

To further explore how to improve workplace communication, check out the post, 4 Effective Enneagram Activities To Help Develop Your Team.

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