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Facing Change: Why Curiosity Beats Fear Every Time

Recently, I came across an idea from Chip Conley that captured perfectly what it feels like to navigate big life shifts. Chip described midlife as a subtle but profound transition—from focusing on your external identity (“ego”) to exploring the internal truths (“soul”) that really define you. It’s about shifting from what you’ve built on the outside to discovering what’s been quietly growing on the inside.

This resonated deeply with me because right now, many of us are facing another big shift, driven not by age, but by technology. AI is changing things rapidly, sparking curiosity for some—but fear for many others. It’s tempting to look at AI and wonder what might be lost rather than what could be gained.

But the truth is, whether it’s midlife transitions or technological revolutions, change always forces a decision: Do we retreat into what’s comfortable and known, or do we lean into curiosity and growth—even when that feels uncomfortable or risky?

For me, the answer has always been clear. And it starts by consciously choosing curiosity over fear.

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Midlife: Perfect Time to Start Over (Yes, Even if It’s Scary)” 🫣

When I was in my early 40s, I did something that felt completely counterintuitive at the time—I left a stable corporate career in Audit to start a tech company. It wasn’t just a career pivot; it was a total mindset shift.

I went from a predictable role where my experience and credentials largely shielded me from rejection, to an environment where I faced multiple rejections from investors and potential customers nearly every day. It was humbling, frustrating, and sometimes painful. But more than anything, it was an education in vulnerability.

Chip Conley talks about something called “The Striver’s Dilemma”—the irony that midlife success can become its own kind of trap.

By the time you reach your 40s or 50s, you’ve often built an identity around external markers: your job title, your expertise, your reputation. These become the uniforms you wear—comfortable, reassuring, but also limiting.

You start to believe the idea that to be successful means to avoid failure at all costs. Unfortunately though, your life gets smaller, your world less interesting, and your growth stalled.

I felt this dilemma deeply when I made the decision to become a beginner again. Stripping away the professional identities I’d accumulated over two decades wasn’t easy, but the alternative—settling into comfortable stagnation—was far scarier.

Midlife, I realized, wasn’t a time to cling tighter to what I already knew. It was the perfect moment to learn something new, even if it meant occasionally feeling foolish or uncertain. Especially if it meant those things.

Why Embracing Beginnerhood Makes AI Less Intimidating

There’s something Chip said that really stuck with me: “The key to a great second half of life is putting yourself in situations where you’re a beginner—where you’re learning again.”

When we’re young, being a beginner is just part of everyday life. Kids don’t worry about looking silly or being bad at something—they just dive in. But as adults, especially successful adults, we avoid beginnerhood because we’re afraid of embarrassment, failure, or appearing incompetent.

Yet here’s the truth I’ve discovered firsthand: actively choosing to be a beginner again is incredibly powerful. It frees you from the pressure of needing to have all the answers. Instead, you get to ask questions, experiment, and explore new ideas without needing to immediately be the best at them.

Right now, as AI rapidly reshapes our world, we have another clear choice. We can shrink back into fear, worrying about what this technology might disrupt or take away—or we can embrace beginnerhood again, leaning into the excitement of discovery.

Personally, I’m fascinated by what AI might unlock, rather than what it might replace. I’m diving into prompt engineering, learning how AI can amplify creativity, improve decision-making, and transform leadership development and team dynamics—the areas that matter most to me professionally. It’s humbling. Sometimes it’s challenging. But above all, it’s energizing and meaningful.

In other words, I’m choosing learning over fear—again.

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What the Early Days of the Internet Taught Me About AI

I remember vividly being an undergrad in the late 90s, fascinated by the rise of the internet. Everything felt exciting, uncertain, and full of possibility.

There were browser wars between Netscape and Microsoft Explorer, debates about how the internet would be searchable (Yahoo versus Google), and wildly different bets on e-commerce, from niche retailers like Pets.com to Amazon’s ambitious “one marketplace for everything.”

Back then, I desperately wanted to graduate quickly and jump into that arena because I could sense how pivotal that moment was. It felt like history was unfolding right in front of us, and I wanted to be part of shaping it.

Today, we’re standing at another inflection point—this time driven by AI—and I feel the same familiar excitement. There are plenty of unknowns and, yes, reasons to feel nervous. But I see even greater potential. AI isn’t just another tool; it’s a chance to rethink how we lead, collaborate, and build companies in deeply meaningful ways.

Instead of worrying about “holding onto sands in an hourglass,” I’m grateful to be building something at this transformative moment. I hope others see this time the same way—as a rare opportunity to shape the future, rather than simply react to it.

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How Curiosity Becomes a Competitive Advantage in Leadership

We don’t often talk about curiosity as a leadership skill. It’s usually framed as a personality trait—something you either have or you don’t. But I’ve come to see it differently. Curiosity is a discipline. It can be practiced, expanded, and even reawakened—especially if it’s been buried under years of expertise, routine, or responsibility.

Scott Shigeoka, in his book Seek, makes the case that curiosity isn’t just a nice-to-have. It’s essential. And research backs him up.

Studies show that curiosity correlates with better problem-solving, stronger relationships, and even longevity. Peter Drucker, one of the most respected management thinkers of all time, used to pick an entirely new subject to study every two years—something completely unrelated to his work. Why? Because he believed curiosity was fuel for his creativity and clarity.

And yet, in many work environments, curiosity is quietly squeezed out by efficiency. The question isn’t “What’s possible?”—it’s “How fast can we get through this meeting?”

But if you’re a leader trying to navigate change—whether it’s brought on by technology, shifting markets, or generational transitions—you don’t just need efficiency. You need to ask better questions. You need to be open to being wrong. You need to create space to explore.

Curiosity isn’t soft. It’s not fluffy. It’s a leadership edge.

Your Best Chapter Could Still Be Ahead

The older I get, the more I believe this: growth doesn’t stop when you hit a certain age—it just changes form. It stops being about climbing ladders or collecting titles and starts becoming about curiosity, meaning, and contribution. But you only access that kind of growth if you’re willing to get uncomfortable again. If you’re willing to be a beginner.

That’s the invitation in front of all of us—especially right now. Whether you’re navigating midlife questions about identity, or trying to make sense of how AI will reshape your work, the instinct to hunker down and cling to what you know is real. But so is the opportunity to lean in, get curious, and build something new.

I’ve found more creativity, energy, and meaning in these past few years than I ever expected—not because I had it all figured out, but because I gave myself permission to not know, to explore, and to learn forward.

So whether it’s launching something new, diving into AI, or picking up a hobby that reminds you what it feels like to be joyfully bad at something—my hope is that you won’t choose fear.

Choose learning.

Your best chapter might still be the one you haven’t written yet.

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HR teams today are expected to deliver personalized, scalable, and seamless employee experiences—without adding more complexity or headcount. But the very systems built to support those goals are often the biggest barrier.

Most enterprise HR stacks have grown bloated and fragmented. With siloed COEs, disconnected tools, and a growing backlog of AI-powered solutions, leaders are left wondering how to drive meaningful impact without overwhelming their teams.

Workday remains a critical foundation—the system of record for people data, transactions, and compliance. But to meet the needs of today’s workforce, Workday AI integration must evolve beyond basic workflows. HR leaders need to rethink how Workday connects to coaching, learning, and cross-functional experiences that actually move the needle.

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Why HR Tech Feels Fragmented (Even When You Have Good Tools)

The traditional approach to HR technology was built for process control, not people enablement. It focused on consistency, compliance, and automation—but fell short on adaptability, personalization, and strategic value.

Here’s what that often looks like today:

COEs manage disconnected slices of the employee journey—each optimizing their own domain, often at the expense of the whole.
Tools are underutilized or overlapping, with unclear ownership and inconsistent user experience.
AI is bolted on as an afterthought, not integrated into workflows or connected to outcomes.

It becomes a patchwork of systems that fails to deliver on the promise of transformation. Employees still feel invisible. Managers are overwhelmed. And HR is stuck reacting instead of leading.

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The Biggest Barriers to Great HR Aren’t Tech—they’re Structural

Even in organizations with modern HR systems, the biggest blockers to transformation aren’t always technical—they’re structural. Silos form not just between departments, but within HR itself. Different COEs—like talent acquisition, L&D, and HR operations—often define and execute the same processes differently, leading to fragmented experiences and dropped handoffs.

One clear example: onboarding. Who owns it? Talent acquisition might claim it through pre-boarding, while L&D might say it belongs in development. But without a unified owner or shared framework, the employee gets a disjointed experience—and valuable context is lost before they even start.

This is more than a process flaw—it’s a culture problem. When data, tools, and responsibilities live in silos, it’s nearly impossible to deliver personalized coaching, integrated feedback, or cohesive growth plans that span the employee lifecycle.

Over the last 12 to 14 months of implementing Cloverleaf, we’ve started to see some silos fall… more cross-organization collaboration… that’s just the beginning. 💬 Kevin Mills, INSP

When teams can better understand each other—and leadership has visibility into who people are and how they work—collaboration becomes easier, culture becomes cohesive, and retention improves.

Silos don’t just block efficiency. They block trust, alignment, and the very outcomes HR is tasked with improving.

A Smarter Way to Build on What Workday Already Does Well

For many HR leaders, the instinct is to buy or build new tools to solve every emerging challenge—especially when AI enters the conversation. But layering new solutions on top of an already complex system often creates more fragmentation, not less.

That’s why organizations like GE HealthCare are taking a different approach: Workday first.

Rosellen Beck, Head of HR Technology and AI Enablement at GE HealthCare, shared that after GE’s corporate split, they inherited a tech stack designed for a massive conglomerate—not a streamlined healthcare business. Rather than starting from scratch, they audited their Workday environment to ask three key questions:

Can Workday do it?
Should Workday do it?
Is Workday the right experience for this use case?

This considerations allowed them to consolidate vendors, reduce compliance risks, and streamline operations. It also provided a clean foundation for layering smarter, more human-centric solutions—like personalized coaching, skills mapping, and AI-driven insights—on top.

They invested in reworking security models, time and attendance, and talent processes directly within Workday. For example:

Payroll was brought fully into Workday for better audit readiness
Their talent lifecycle model was redesigned to reflect how the business actually works, not how the system defaulted
Clunky 360 feedback was removed and replaced with facilitated, contextual conversations

In short, the platform became a launchpad for strategic evolution, not just a transactional engine.

💡 You can’t build a future-ready organization with legacy HR structures. — Rosellen Beck, Global HR Technology and AI Strategist

But GE HealthCare didn’t stop at process optimization—they used Workday’s simplification as a catalyst for rethinking how HR itself was structured and how change could be led cross-functionally.

Rosellen described their approach as “blowing up” traditional COEs and shared services, challenging whether HRBPs or People Ops teams should own development. It wasn’t just about streamlining tools—it was about building cultural readiness for transformation.

When Workday is used as a unified system of record—not a siloed set of features—it creates the data integrity and process backbone needed to power everything else: learning, coaching, feedback, planning, and more.

Visible Skills Data = Better Coaching, Planning, and Mobility

Skills-based talent management is one of the most talked-about priorities in HR today—but it’s also one of the most misunderstood. Too often, companies wait until they have a fully defined taxonomy, airtight governance, and clean data before launching anything at all.

GE HealthCare did the opposite—and it worked.

Rather than over-engineer a skills framework from the top down, they simply turned skills on in Workday. Employees were encouraged to self-report their skills—without validation, without structure, and without fear of doing it wrong. It was intentional. The goal wasn’t perfection—it was visibility.

And what they found was game-changing:

The skills employees said they had didn’t match what the business expected.Job profiles didn’t reflect the real skills needed to perform effectively.Learning paths weren’t aligned to either.

These gaps created instant value. Instead of investing months in design, GE had real data to spark real conversations: How are we defining success in key roles? Are we training for what we actually need? Where are our blind spots in succession planning?

Skills data didn’t need to be perfect to be powerful—it just needed to be surfaced.

💡 Pro Tip: GE began by piloting this strategy with a single business unit. By tying Workday’s native dashboards to grassroots mapping work, they created feedback loops between actual needs, stated capabilities, and strategic learning.

As Rosellen noted, the outcome wasn’t just a cleaner skills database. It was a better way to:

Spot hidden talent and capabilities
Prioritize role-specific learning and coaching
Enable the business to co-own the strategy—not just HR

This is the future of skills: visible, conversational, and iteratively refined—not frozen in policy documents.

AI Connects the Dots—Workday Holds the Data, Cloverleaf Delivers the Coaching

AI is often hyped as a game-changer for HR—and it can be. But only when it’s used to make the employee experience simpler, faster, and more human—not just more automated.

At GE HealthCare, AI isn’t seen as a shiny dashboard. It’s being deployed to solve real-world workflow problems: how to reduce friction, enable proactive nudges, and help managers focus on people—not process.

Roslin described their approach as a “bot of bots” strategy: connecting Microsoft Copilot, ServiceNow, Salesforce, and Workday into one coordinated AI layer. This system isn’t just reactive—it’s designed to anticipate needs:

Surfacing mid-year review reminders based on calendar activity
Drafting check-in feedback based on goals, meetings, and priorities
Identifying lagging sales metrics and suggesting coaching strategies

This kind of proactive AI creates time, clarity, and focus. Instead of waiting for HR reports or login prompts, employees get relevant coaching in the flow of their work.

Rather than an isolated assessment, I get a feel for the team from a much more holistic perspective… Cloverleaf really works to address specific team issues in particular. -💬 Erin Mires, Galen College of Nursing

Galen’s team is using Cloverleaf’s behavioral insights and AI-driven prompts to design development plans tailored to real team dynamics, not generic frameworks. By layering in assessments like DISC, Enneagram, or 16-types, they’re able to coach teams with specificity—without spending hours on analysis.

This is the sweet spot: Workday provides the structure and people data. AI connects the dots. Cloverleaf delivers coaching that lands.

This mentality can lead to a more personalized, scalable way to support managers and enable better conversations—without adding more tools or process.

Cloverleaf Is the Coaching + Personalization Layer for Workday

Workday is powerful—but it wasn’t designed to be personal. It excels at capturing people data, executing transactions, and enforcing compliance. What it needs is a way to bring that data to life through behavioral insight, human connection, and real-time coaching.

Cloverleaf acts as a personalization and coaching layer on top of Workday—helping organizations turn raw data into daily impact. Through seamless integrations (via Workday Extend or Built-on Workday apps), Cloverleaf connects directly to the systems HR already uses, enhancing—not replacing—existing processes.

Here’s how it works:

🔄 Skills Inference: Cloverleaf can suggest skills based on assessment data and feedback, enriching Workday profiles without requiring a new system or process.
💬 AI Coaching Nudges: Delivered through Slack or Teams, Cloverleaf provides
proactive, personality-informed insights to help managers lead more effectively.
📈 Feedback Quality Boosters: Cloverleaf’s AI helps employees craft better feedback based on the recipient’s communication style, increasing psychological safety and clarity.
🧠 Integrated Development Plans: L&D teams use Cloverleaf to embed team dynamics and reflection tools into individual or team development journeys—without needing to leave their flow of work.

From health systems to higher education to media companies, organizations are using Cloverleaf to:

Improve retention
Reduce team turnover
Enable distributed collaboration
Coach new managers on real-world dynamics—not just abstract models

And with Workday as the backbone, Cloverleaf ensures every insight is grounded in source data, system-connected, and privacy-safe.

A Practical Path to People-Centered HR

The future of talent strategy isn’t about buying more tools—it’s about connecting the dots between the systems you already trust and the people you’re trying to serve.

Workday provides the structure. Cloverleaf brings the personalization. AI connects the two.

Together, they create a scalable, people-centered approach to HR—one that replaces disconnected systems and reactive processes with proactive coaching, skills visibility, and real-time enablement.

Transformation doesn’t require a 5-year roadmap. It starts with:

Turning on visibility, even before governance is perfect
Empowering teams to move fast with coaching nudges—not more training
Using AI to reduce friction, not add complexity
Measuring outcomes that matter: alignment, trust, performance, and growth

You don’t need to build it all yourself. You just need the right foundation—and the right partner to bring it to life.

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🙋 FAQ

Q: Isn’t turning on skills without governance risky?

A: Not if your goal is insight. GE HealthCare’s approach shows that visibility leads to alignment. Governance can follow—not precede—adoption.

Q: Do I need Workday Extend to use Cloverleaf?

A: No. Cloverleaf offers both Built-on Workday apps and external integrations, depending on your Workday configuration.

Q: Can I use Cloverleaf without Workday?

A: Yes. Cloverleaf operates independently or as an enhancement to existing HRIS systems, including Workday.

Q: How is Cloverleaf different from traditional L&D or feedback tools?

A: Cloverleaf is the only science-backed AI coaching experience—so every nudge is tailored to how people actually think, work, and collaborate. It’s also fully customizable to your org’s leadership models and built into one platform, not bolted onto another. The result? Daily coaching that feels personal, reflects your culture, and actually drives behavior change.

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If you’re a coach, consultant, or trainer, you’ve undoubtedly felt the shift. Budgets are shrinking across the board, yet the expectations from clients and organizations aren’t just holding steady—they’re soaring.

Simply delivering an engaging day in a training room or conducting a lively Zoom session is no longer sufficient. Clients now demand clear evidence of meaningful, sustained behavior change—proof that what you offer isn’t merely enjoyable, but genuinely moves the needle.

The challenge goes deeper: personalization and follow-up have become non-negotiable. Organizations are increasingly dissatisfied with generic, one-size-fits-all workshops and traditional “check-the-box” training.

They seek customized insights that resonate with each individual’s day-to-day reality and drive genuine change.

The catch? Achieving such personalized depth typically requires enormous effort, from generating extensive supplemental content to constantly providing individualized follow-ups, leaving practitioners at risk of burnout and dilution of their core value.

In this landscape, coaches urgently need scalable solutions that amplify their impact without compromising the deeply human, empathetic connections that make coaching truly transformative.

It’s time to rethink how we integrate smart automation and human expertise—crafting an approach that doesn’t just survive budget constraints but thrives, delivering sustained, measurable change that organizations crave.

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The Coaching Problem No One Talks About

Most coaching and training approaches rely heavily on workshops and sessions that, while often inspiring and engaging in the moment, rarely lead to lasting behavior change.

Participants typically leave energized but without clear, actionable steps or ongoing support, causing insights and motivation to quickly fade.

Follow-up, when it exists, is often overly generic—copy-paste PDFs and mass emails no one reads, mass emails, or sporadic check-ins—that don’t address the personalized, real-time challenges participants face daily.

This lack of tailored reinforcement severely limits the sustained effectiveness of coaching and training initiatives.

Additionally, while AI-driven solutions have gained popularity, their misuse or poor implementation can inadvertently undermine trust and effectiveness.

Generic algorithms can reinforce existing negative behaviors, provide impersonal advice detached from real-world context, or prioritize corporate goals over genuine individual growth.

Without careful integration, technology risks eroding the human connection essential to meaningful coaching.

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Monetizing Scalable Coaching: Practical Revenue Models

Coaches today are expected to deliver more value, often with fewer resources. To meet this demand without drowning in custom follow-ups, it’s critical to rethink not just delivery—but pricing.

There are several proven ways coaches can scale their impact and revenue:

Tiered Offerings: Bundle your services into packages that combine live sessions with automated follow-up tools that extend your presence between sessions. For example, offer:
- Tier 1: Individual coaching + automated coaching access
- Tier 2: Team workshops + team dashboard access
- Tier 3: Ongoing consulting retainer + assessment-based nudges + quarterly debriefs
Value-Based Pricing: Instead of charging by the hour, price based on the outcomes you help create—such as improved team communication, conflict resolution, or reduced turnover.
White-Labeled Access: Frame Cloverleaf access as your own “coaching portal” included in your service, not a line item. Many coaches successfully embed these costs in their total program pricing.

Why Great Coaching Can Still Fall Short—And How AI Can Fix It

Traditional coaching workshops are often engaging and insightful—but they’re missing the critical piece: consistent, personalized follow-up to sustain the momentum.

Once the initial enthusiasm from a session fades, clients and participants return to their daily routines without clear guidance on how to apply new insights, causing even powerful learning experiences to become distant memories.

Typical follow-up methods—generic handouts, templated emails, and periodic check-ins—fall short because they fail to speak directly to the specific context of each individual.

Coaches end up spending valuable time and energy creating job aids, video content, or reminders that still feel disconnected from the nuanced challenges their clients face every day.

AI solutions have emerged as potential fixes, promising scale and efficiency, but many of these tools rely heavily on generic, surface-level suggestions.

Without proper contextual understanding, AI-generated advice can feel impersonal or even misguided, reinforcing negative patterns rather than breaking them. Overreliance on automation further risks diluting trust, as clients quickly sense the difference between genuine, human-centered engagement and automated messages that miss the mark.

In essence, while traditional workshops and basic AI tools might promise improvement, they rarely deliver lasting behavioral change or truly personalized insights—leaving both coaches and clients stuck in a cycle of diminishing returns.

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A Better Way to Think About How Coaches and Trainers Can Use AI

Rather than viewing AI as a replacement for the human coach, the most effective approach positions AI as a complementary partner—an enabler that amplifies coaches’ unique expertise and human insight.

AI excels at delivering consistent, targeted nudges, or “micro-coaching” tips, precisely when and where clients need them most, without adding extra manual work for coaches.

This approach leverages automation strategically, ensuring clients regularly receive personalized, contextually relevant insights embedded seamlessly within the tools they already use—like their inbox, meeting invites, or daily team chats.

These bite-sized nudges reinforce the learning from coaching sessions or workshops, keeping essential insights alive and actionable in daily workflows.

Critically, AI’s strength lies in consistency and scalability, freeing human coaches to focus their energy on deeper, high-value interactions that require empathy, judgment, and nuanced understanding.

Coaches provide depth, personalized guidance, and emotional intelligence—elements AI cannot replicate. Together, the combination of automation for continuous reinforcement and human coaching for personal depth creates a powerful synergy that drives genuine, sustainable behavioral change.

Implementing a Balanced Human-AI Coaching Model

1. Identify High-Impact Opportunities for Automation

Effective integration of AI begins by clearly pinpointing areas in coaching workflows where automation naturally excels. These include:

Routine reminders and nudges to reinforce session insights and keep new behaviors top of mind.
Follow-up coaching questions and reflective prompts that encourage daily self-awareness and application of learned skills.
Real-time actionable insights seamlessly delivered within daily tools to ensure insights aren’t buried in reports but remain immediately accessible.

2. Leverage Validated Assessment Data

Personalization is key. Rather than relying on generic advice, harness AI to create tailored coaching insights by using validated personality assessments. This approach ensures:

Contextual relevance, with AI-driven tips tailored specifically to individuals’ unique behavioral patterns, communication styles, and developmental goals.
Alignment with individual objectives and team dynamics, fostering an environment where coaching insights resonate personally and immediately.

3. Maintain Human Connection at Critical Moments

Clearly delineate the critical junctures where only a coach’s lived experience, intuition, and emotional intelligence can drive meaningful transformation. AI complements—but never replaces—this human touch. These irreplaceable moments often include:

Conflict resolution, values misalignment, and team dysfunction, where subtle emotional undercurrents and real-time adaptation are essential.
Emotionally charged or difficult feedback conversations, where trust, tone, and timing deeply shape how messages are received and integrated.

These are not excuses for automation—they are opportunities for deep presence and insight.

However, automation excels at reinforcement, not resolution. Use AI to deliver personalized nudges, reflective prompts, and context-specific coaching tips that extend your impact between sessions.

This approach allows coaches to scale insight without sacrificing connection, embedding the lessons from human moments into daily behavior without the need for manual follow-up.

The Hybrid Coaching Experience: A Three-Part Framework

I outlines a powerful, scalable approach to modern coaching that integrates Cloverleaf’s automation without sacrificing the coach-client relationship:

Personal Insight
Start with assessments tools that help individuals understand themselves—personality, communication style, team role, and blind spots.
Coaching the Team Dynamic
Use tools like the team dashboard and comparison views (e.g., Enneagram conflict responses) to uncover friction points and improve team interaction patterns.
Sustaining Momentum
Reinforce learning with ongoing coaching cues, embedded in routines, not buried in notes to keep coaching active between sessions and long after a workshop ends.

This framework ensures coaching is both transformational and sustainable—with human wisdom at the center and AI in support.

Scaling AI Coaching Sustainably

A core advantage of incorporating AI into coaching practices is scalability—enabling coaches to extend their reach and impact without sacrificing the quality of personalized attention. Rather than being limited by traditional one-to-one or small group interactions, automation allows coaches to engage much larger groups effectively.

By embedding continuous, personalized coaching nudges directly into daily workflows participants receive consistent, timely reinforcement without overwhelming coaches or HR teams.

These micro-coaching interactions keep insights alive and actionable, ensuring that meaningful behavioral shifts occur incrementally over time.

To achieve seamless scalability, it’s critical to integrate AI-driven coaching solutions into existing organizational platforms.

This frictionless adoption ensures minimal disruption, reduces resistance from users, and leverages familiar tools, significantly increasing user engagement and sustained adoption. This strategic integration helps coaching become a natural, ongoing part of employees’ everyday experiences, rather than an additional burden or afterthought.

How Coaches Use Cloverleaf To Integrate AI

Cloverleaf offers a uniquely integrated coaching platform designed explicitly to complement and enhance human coaching—never to replace it.

Leveraging validated personality and strengths-based assessments (such as DISC, MBTI, Enneagram, and VIA Strengths), Cloverleaf translates deep psychological insights into practical, personalized coaching nudges delivered daily.

One executive, after seeing their Cloverleaf profile, was surprised to discover that one of their top strengths was ‘Love.’ That single insight changed the way they led their team—shifting from transactional delegation to daily acts of care and clarity.

Coaching stuck. Culture shifted.

Participants receive these insights directly within the digital tools they already use ensuring consistent, contextually relevant reinforcement that effortlessly fits into their daily workflow.

Real-world examples:

Personalized Micro-Coaching:
Instead of generic follow-up, Cloverleaf sends personalized nudges that resonate deeply with individuals’ unique contexts. For instance, a leader struggling with conflict management receives tailored tips on how to approach challenging conversations with specific team members, creating immediate, actionable guidance.
Calendar Integration for Real-Time Coaching:
Coaches often struggle to stay top-of-mind between sessions. Cloverleaf’s calendar integration ensures coaching insights appear precisely when most relevant—right before critical meetings, performance reviews, or one-on-one check-ins—keeping the coach’s expertise and guidance continuously present and actionable.
Human-AI Symbiosis:
Cloverleaf doesn’t replace the coach’s empathy, judgment, or intuition. Instead, it frees coaches from repetitive, manual tasks, empowering them to focus their time and attention on deeper, transformative interactions. Coaches use Cloverleaf’s insights as conversation starters or reflective prompts, deepening trust and strengthening relationships.

By enhancing rather than substituting the human element, Cloverleaf preserves the essential human connection at the heart of impactful coaching, ensuring technology serves human expertise rather than attempting to replace it.

The Future of Coaching Includes Human-Centric AI

The next evolution of coaching won’t choose between technology and human expertise—it will seamlessly blend the best of both.

Successful coaching practices of the future will integrate AI’s scalable, consistent nudges with the irreplaceable human elements of empathy, intuition, and personal connection.

Coaches will leverage automation not as a replacement, but as a tool to enhance their impact, focusing more time and energy on meaningful conversations, deep reflection, and transformative breakthroughs.

Organizations ready to embrace this approach should rethink how they currently integrate AI into coaching.

Rather than merely automating processes, they can follow Cloverleaf’s model—using intelligent, context-driven automation to augment the coach’s role sustainably.

By placing human-centric AI at the core of their practice, coaches and organizations can deliver lasting, measurable results without sacrificing the depth of genuine human interaction.

🙋 FAQ

Q: How do I balance AI-driven coaching with personal human interaction?

A: AI tools like Cloverleaf automate reinforcement—nudges, tips, reminders—so you can spend more time on what matters most: conflict resolution, team dynamics, and trust-building. Think of it as buying back your time, not replacing your presence.

Q: What does a scalable coaching business model actually look like?

A: There are a couple levers coaches can pull to scale their coaching. Embedding assessment access into your services (rather than charging per report), offering team-wide access, and structuring recurring value through ongoing micro-coaching instead of only one-time workshops.

Q: Will clients feel less connected if I automate follow-up?

A: Actually, the opposite often happens. Clients receive personalized, actionable insights via daily tips—delivered in their email or Slack—which reinforces the coaching they’ve already received. This keeps you top of mind without requiring more hours.

Q: Can I integrate this into my existing team workshops or coaching framework?

A: Yes. You can pair Cloverleaf with whatever content you’re already delivering—like conflict training or leadership coaching—and using features like team dashboards and strength insights to contextualize your teachings.

Q: What’s the best way to extend impact between sessions without adding more content creation?

A: Leverage Cloverleaf’s automated nudges and the coaching journal. Clients can reflect daily on their insights, aligned with their current team challenges—without you having to build new PDFs or follow-up resources.

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Walk into almost any organization, and you’ll find a shelf—or a shared drive—filled with personality reports from a team-building day long forgotten. DISC, Enneagram, MBTI, Working Genius—you name it. Leaders loved the workshop, people remembered their “type,” and then… nothing.

This isn’t because the tools don’t work. It’s because the insight isn’t embedded into how people actually work.

Assessments often spark awareness, but awareness isn’t enough. If there’s no follow-up structure, no reinforcement, and no connection to day-to-day behavior, the potential fades fast.

And that’s the opportunity.

For coaches, consultants, and facilitators, assessments don’t just have to be a one-time event or a slide deck add-on. They can be the foundation of scalable, high-impact coaching products—the kind that support growth between sessions and create lasting client value.

In this article, we’ll show you how to make that shift. Based on a recent Cloverleaf webinar, we’ll unpack how to:

Use assessments to deliver real behavior change—not just insight.
Create repeatable coaching programs that scale without burnout.
Turn “a single session” into an ongoing client relationship.

You don’t need to add more to your client’s calendar. You need to meet them in the one they already use.

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Why Most Coaches Struggle To Deliver ROI & Follow-Through With Assessments

Assessments are one of the most widely adopted tools in leadership and team development. But despite their popularity—and the budgets behind them—most of their value never gets realized.

According to a 2024 report from ATD, only 18% of organizations say they fully leverage assessment data after the initial debrief.

That means in more than 80% of cases, the insight stops where the report ends.

Why?

Because the infrastructure for using the insight isn’t there.

Here’s what gets in the way:

Leaders don’t know what to do with the data. A 20-page PDF doesn’t translate into action. Especially when the only guidance they received was during a one-time workshop.
Workshops aren’t connected to daily work. Even excellent facilitators can’t force relevance. Without a clear path to integrate insight into meetings, feedback, and collaboration, it fades.
There’s no follow-up mechanism. If nothing reinforces the learning, it gets lost to the noise of the workweek.

As one coach in our webinar put it, “It’s not that the tools fail. It’s that we stop short of behavior.”

And that’s the core insight: Awareness doesn’t drive behavior. Repetition and reinforcement do.

Until clients see the connection between assessment insight and their everyday choices—how they run meetings, give feedback, handle conflict—they’ll never get the ROI they hoped for.

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A 3-Part Framework for Turning Insight Into Lasting Impact

Most coaches stop at awareness. The great ones build infrastructure for change.

Stephanie Lacata, a senior learning strategist and longtime practitioner, introduced this simple but powerful framework in our recent webinar. It’s designed to help coaches move beyond the debrief—so insights actually drive behavior.

Here’s how it works:

1. Educate: Spark Shared Language

Assessments like DISC, Enneagram, and 16 Types create a common framework for understanding behavior.

Whether it’s “She’s a high C” or “That’s his 7 energy showing up,” the shared language reduces judgment and creates space for curiosity.

But that initial clarity is only the beginning. Shared language is a starting point—not a strategy.

Without something more, even the stickiest language fades into novelty.

2. Embed: Reinforce in the Flow of Work

This is where most coaching products break down. They assume insight will last without reinforcement.

But what happens when clients go back to overflowing inboxes and standing meetings?

The data shows: they forget. Fast.

Instead of asking clients to recall insights, bring those insights to them—right when they need them.

Assessment platforms like Cloverleaf can deliver personalized nudges, right where decisions happen. Before meetings, in calendar invites, inside Slack threads. Not after the moment passes.

Daily nudges, customized by assessment data, can appear in email, calendar invites, or Slack—before a meeting, performance review, or tough conversation.

This makes insight actionable. And repeatable. If insight isn’t applied in daily work, it doesn’t matter how accurate the assessment is—it won’t lead to better decisions.

3. Evolve: Build a System for Growth

Once assessment insights are embedded in workflow, they become a foundation for deeper development.

This might look like:

Leadership sprints based on team dynamics
Quarterly coaching check-ins tied to behavior patterns
Conflict playbooks personalized by type and motivators
Custom prompts for performance conversations

It shifts coaching from a series of one-offs to a consistent developmental rhythm.

Insight fades fast if it isn’t reinforced. Without a system to apply it daily, assessment data gets forgotten—not used.

When clients evolve how they use insight, you evolve your value as a coach, from vendor to strategic partner.

How One Coach Used Cloverleaf to Reinforce Learning Between Sessions

So what does it actually look like to turn assessments into scalable coaching assets?

In my work with a large hospitality organization, I led a coaching program that reached over 200 leaders, without adding more sessions. Using Cloverleaf, I was able to reinforce learning between workshops, deepen team trust, and drive real behavior change.

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Over two years, Stephanie led a leadership development initiative across a large hospitality organization. The program reached more than 200 leaders through five cohorts, from executives to frontline managers.

But here’s what made it scalable:

Sessions were just 60 minutes every other week. No full-day workshops, no intensive retreats.
Cloverleaf was embedded throughout. Participants received personalized coaching nudges—based on their assessment results—in between sessions.

These nudges showed up where they already worked: in inboxes, calendars, and coaching dashboards.

And the result?

Leaders didn’t just learn new skills—they actually used them.

The Impact of Embedded Coaching Nudges

Participants reported:

Greater confidence navigating conflict, thanks to tips tailored to each teammate’s communication style.
More effective feedback conversations, customized by DISC, 16 Types, and Enneagram insights.
Stronger trust and team connection—without adding extra sessions or content.

They weren’t carrying around PDFs or trying to remember a one-time workshop. They were getting contextual prompts that turned knowledge into action.

The nudges weren’t replacing the coaching, they were reinforcing it.

When insight surfaces at the exact moment it’s needed; before a meeting, during a 1:1, or in the middle of a tough conversation, it can drive meaningful behavior change. Coaching can become continuous, even when the coach isn’t in the room.

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How to Position and Price Coaching for Ongoing Value

One of the biggest mindset shifts for coaches? Stop thinking in hours. Start thinking in outcomes.

During the webinar, Stephanie challenged a common trap: pricing coaching like a freelancer—session by session. When coaches do this, they cap their income and their impact.

Don’t Sell a Workshop. Sell a Transformation.

Instead of a 90-minute session, offer a 90-day development journey. Cloverleaf makes this possible—by continuing the coaching after you log off.

Here’s how to reposition your offer:

Lead with the outcome: What behavior will change? What business pain are you solving?
Use Cloverleaf as the infrastructure: Daily nudges, insight libraries, and coaching prompts keep development alive between sessions.
Anchor in value, not presence: You don’t need to be there every day for your coaching to make a daily impact.

Offer Tiered Packages That Scale With Client Needs

A flexible, productized offer might include:

Tier 1: Insight Access
- Cloverleaf + assessments + daily nudges
- No live coaching—great for low-touch programs or internal leader development
Tier 2: Guided Growth
- Access + group workshops or cohort-based learning
- You facilitate key moments, Cloverleaf sustains momentum
Tier 3: Full Partnership
- Access + groups + 1:1 coaching
- Ideal for exec teams or change initiatives

You’re not just selling hours—you’re selling behavior change, business outcomes, and a development experience that lasts.

Stop charging for the hour. Start charging for embedded value.

That’s what makes your coaching not just scalable, but sustainable.

How to Turn a Single Workshop Into a Scalable Coaching Platform

Most coaching engagements start with a workshop. But they don’t have to end there.

The key isn’t more content. It’s more continuity.

When you use assessments strategically, with tools like Cloverleaf, you can:

Extend relationships beyond a single contract.
Deliver measurable behavior change across remote, hybrid, and siloed teams.
Position yourself as an embedded development partner, not a one-and-done vendor.

In the webinar, Stephanie shared specific ways coaches are turning initial engagements into long-term platforms for growth:

Seed growth with smart generosity. Offer a trial or gift access to Cloverleaf—just enough to spark curiosity and show value.
Embed it into your proposal. Don’t line-item assessments. Instead, position them as part of your process for building self-awareness and team trust.
Use assessment data as a shortcut. When coaching leaders through feedback, conflict, or team dynamics, Cloverleaf insight becomes your fast pass to relevance.

The result?

Leaders don’t just remember your workshop. They experience your coaching in their inbox, calendar, and conversations—every single day.

This is how you move from a one-time event… to an everyday asset.

The Next Era of Coaching Is Embedded, Ongoing, and Always On

Assessments spark awareness.

Coaching sustains growth.

But it’s technology that scales both, without losing the human touch.

Cloverleaf helps coaches extend their impact by embedding personalized insight into daily work. That means less time spent repeating yourself… and more time building momentum that sticks.

Turn your next workshop into a scalable, tech-enabled coaching platform that delivers long-term results, and recurring revenue.

🙋 FAQ

Q: Do I have to be certified in each assessment to use this?

A: No. Cloverleaf makes DISC, Enneagram, 16 Types, and more accessible to coaches—without requiring formal certification. You bring the coaching expertise; Cloverleaf delivers the insight in a usable, client-friendly format.

Q: What if my clients already use other assessments?

A: Great—Cloverleaf builds on what they already know. You’re not duplicating effort—you’re amplifying it, with personalized nudges and team dynamics that bring static reports to life.

Q: Will this replace me as a coach?

A: No. Cloverleaf doesn’t replace coaching—it reinforces it. You’re still the guide. Cloverleaf becomes the daily companion that helps your insights stick between sessions and across teams.

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Feedback is supposed to build trust. It’s supposed to spark growth. It’s supposed to be the heartbeat of a healthy culture.

But for most teams? It’s still a source of confusion, anxiety, or silence.

Organizations have invested heavily in feedback training—frameworks, models, scripts. Yet across industries, HR leaders and people managers report the same problem: the conversations still aren’t happening. And when they do, they often backfire.

One L&D leader put it bluntly: “We stopped doing annual reviews to create a culture of feedback—and now no one gives any.”

This isn’t an outlier. It’s a pattern. Many companies have made structural shifts—removing rigid performance cycles, launching manager training—but haven’t filled the behavioral and relational gaps that actually enable feedback to flow.

The disconnect isn’t about knowledge. It’s about behavior.

In today’s hybrid, fast-moving, emotionally complex workplaces, feedback can’t be one-size-fits-all. It can’t be reserved for performance reviews. And it definitely can’t be delivered without understanding how someone best receives and responds to input.

This is the tension. Leaders want coaching cultures. Employees want to grow. But without consistent, personalized, in-the-work reinforcement, feedback will keep failing—even with the best of intentions.

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Why Feedback Doesn’t Land Even When It’s Well-Intended

Most feedback failures aren’t caused by lack of skill. They’re caused by lack of trust.

The truth is, people know how to give feedback. They’ve been through the training. They’ve practiced the sandwich method, learned the SBI model, maybe even role-played difficult conversations. But when it comes time to apply it? They hesitate—or they miss the mark.

As one leader shared, “The worst feedback I ever got was based on an assumption—without a conversation first.” – Michelle Tillis Lederman

That quote reveals the heart of the issue: feedback doesn’t land when it feels like judgment without understanding.

Too often, feedback is rushed. Delivered with certainty instead of curiosity. It becomes something that happens to someone—not with them or for them.

Why? Because feedback is fundamentally relational. And too often, it’s treated like a transaction.

Instead of conversations that build clarity and connection, people default to vague praise, blunt critiques, or total silence. Feedback feels risky, one-sided, or out of sync with the moment. It happens to someone, not for them. That’s when defensiveness sets in—and growth shuts down.

What’s missing isn’t more frameworks. It’s follow-through. It’s the micro-habits of reflection and curiosity. It’s the personalization that shows people you see them—not just their performance. Without that foundation, feedback can’t land—no matter how carefully it’s worded.

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How To Give Feedback That Is Welcomed By Teammates

Feedback isn’t a form. It’s not a rating. And it’s not a moment to prove you’re right.

It’s a chance to deepen the relationship—and help someone grow with clarity and confidence.

As leadership author Joe Hirsch puts it, great feedback “shows people where to look—not what to see.”

That’s the difference between performance management and relational development.

The most effective feedback isn’t about certainty. It’s about curiosity. It’s not “Here’s what you did wrong.” It’s “Help me understand what you were aiming for—and let’s explore how it could be even stronger.”

This shift, from performance to partnership, changes everything.

Because when feedback is rooted in relationship, it invites reflection. It disarms defensiveness. And it leads to ownership, not resistance.

The starting point? Don’t ask, What do I need to say? Ask, How will this person best receive it?

Are they energized by challenge—or do they need time to reflect?
Do they crave clarity—or connection?
Are they motivated by recognition, improvement, alignment, autonomy?

That’s where most feedback efforts stalls out, not because leaders don’t care, but because they forget to adapt the message to the person.

Great feedback doesn’t start with what you say. It starts with understanding who the other person is. Assessment tools like DISC, Enneagram, and 16 Types don’t just describe people. They show you how to lead them.
These aren’t personality labels—they’re maps for how someone handles tension, motivation, and connection. These types of insight can help leaders craft feedback that is meaningful instead of mechanical.

If you’re giving feedback to a high-D in DISC, they’ll respond to directness and clarity. Delay or vagueness reads as weakness.
A Type 9 on the Enneagram? They may avoid conflict—and need reassurance that feedback doesn’t equal disconnection.
An INTJ from the 16 Types framework? They value competence and strategic thinking. Show them how feedback connects to their bigger-picture goals.

Feedback shouldn’t just be delivered. It should land. And that only happens when you know what drives someone and what’s likely to knock them off course.

How To Implement Feedback Into The Flow Of Work

Personalize Feedback to Personality

The first step is knowing who you’re talking to, not just what you need to say.

Feedback that lands well is shaped by how someone processes information, handles emotion, and defines growth. That’s not soft science. It’s practical awareness.

Most feedback training treats people like they’ll all respond the same way to input—as if structure alone guarantees impact.

But in practice, the same words land very differently depending on who hears them.

This is where personality insights become real tools for relational leadership.

These differences aren’t preferences. They’re patterns of perception. When you name them, you unlock better conversations.

Simple language shifts go a long way:

“Help me understand your approach here…”
“I believe in your strengths, and I think you can push this even further.”

These kinds of phrases signal trust, not control. They invite collaboration instead of critique.

Feedback without personality insight is like coaching blindfolded. The more you see, the better it lands.

Build Feedback Into the Flow of Work, Not Just the 1:1

When feedback becomes a formal event, it becomes a stressful one.

Leaders hold back until it “matters.” Teammates brace for impact. And the opportunity to grow in real time slips by.

The fix isn’t another training. It’s a rhythm that reduces friction with practicing feedback.

In Slack or Teams: A prompt before or after meetings: “Was there a moment of great collaboration or misalignment today?” One sentence. No scorecard.
At the end of a project sprint: A 5-minute retro focused not just on what worked, but who contributed in a way worth reinforcing.
As part of tool integrations: Nudges based on personality insight that help a manager shift from “I need to give feedback” to “Here’s how I make it meaningful for this person.”

These are low-effort, high-impact feedback loops that don’t rely on memory, courage, or perfect timing. They’re built into the way people already work—and reinforced with insight that helps the message land.

The key isn’t formality. It’s frequency and intent.

Feedback should happen when context is fresh, tension is low, and reflection is easy. If you’re waiting for a quarterly review to give input, you’ve already missed the moment.

This is where tools like Cloverleaf help. Nudges surface relevant personality insights tied to daily collaboration. Managers don’t have to remember what to say. They get reminded how to connect.

Most leaders want to give good feedback. What they need is help doing it consistently, without carrying all the weight alone.

Look for the Signals of a Feedback Culture

You probably do not need a new engagement survey to know if your feedback culture is working. You just need to look at what people are doing—and saying—differently.

Too many feedback initiatives get evaluated on rollout metrics: how many people attended training, how many reviews were completed on time.

None of that tells you whether feedback is actually changing anything.

A better measure of success is this: Are people showing up differently because of the conversations they’re having?

Look for these signals instead:

Language shift: Are people using more specific, behavior-based language?
Ownership: Are teammates reflecting before reacting? Are managers following up?
Initiation: Is feedback being offered without a formal request or manager prompt?

Success isn’t just more feedback. It’s better feedback—timely, actionable, and mutual.

Track what matters:

Frequency and quality of feedback conversations
Use of nudges or personalized insights in the flow of work
Peer to peer feedback and upward coaching moments

If feedback is happening, growing, and building trust, you’ll see it. Not just in surveys but in behavior.

Use Tools That Reinforce Feedback Practices

You’ve trained your team. Cloverleaf helps them apply it.

Most feedback training stops at content. Cloverleaf goes further—embedding relational intelligence in the day-to-day interactions where feedback actually lives.

loverleaf doesn’t just describe how someone’s wired—it shows you how to lead them better, in the exact moment it matters. This is real-time, in-the-work coaching based on who you’re talking to, not just what their role is.

How will this person hear what you’re about to say? Cloverleaf helps you get that right.

“Feedback tips” can only help so much. People need relational intelligence, in context, in real time.

It’s not advice in a vacuum. It’s tailored coaching—based on who you’re working with, what’s happening, and how it’s likely to play out.

Here’s what that looks like in action:

A calendar nudge before a tough meeting—not just a reminder, but guidance on how your teammates communicate and handle conflict, so you show up prepared.
A reflection prompt after a project handoff that considers your teammate’s actual processing style, whether they need affirmation first, space to reflect, or direct action-oriented feedback.
A personalized coaching moment that guides you on how to phrase input so it aligns with your colleague’s DISC, Enneagram, or 16 Types profile—not just what sounds good in theory, but what this person will actually hear and respond to.

Cloverleaf doesn’t just understand personality. It understands the personal dynamics of your team, in the exact moment they matter.

Cloverleaf connects how people feel with how they behave—so teams can work through friction, not around it. It doesn’t just describe how your people work. It coaches them, live, through the moments where things often go sideways.

Because the hardest part of feedback isn’t what to say. It’s knowing how to say it, when to say it, and how it will be received.

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Effective Feedback Is Always Personal, Timely, and Rooted in Trust

What’s holding feedback back isn’t a lack of knowledge. It’s the absence of safe, repeatable habits that match how people actually work—and how they’re wired.

Organizations don’t need another framework. They need to build the muscle for real-time, relational feedback. The kind that doesn’t wait for review cycles. The kind that doesn’t assume one-size-fits-all. The kind that makes people feel seen, not judged.

It starts with curiosity.

It gets better with personalization.

And it sticks when it becomes part of how work actually gets done.

The best feedback isn’t just timely or well-phrased. It’s built on trust—because it honors who someone is while helping them grow.

Or as one people leader expert said: “It’s hard for anything to matter if people don’t feel like they matter.” – Tamara Myles

That’s what we’re really solving for.

🙋 FAQ

Q. How do I know if feedback is actually landing?

A. Don’t rely on polite nods or “thanks for the feedback” replies. Look at what happens after the conversation.

Did the person follow up? Did they adjust their approach? Are they referencing the input in future work?

When feedback lands, it shows up in behavior—reflection, ownership, and change. That’s your signal.

Q. What if two team members have totally different feedback styles?

A. Treating everyone the same is what breaks feedback. One person wants clear direction. Another needs time to reflect. What works for one can shut down another.

That’s why personality insight matters. Tools like Cloverleaf help you understand how each person receives input—so you can tailor the delivery without diluting the message.

You don’t need a different script for everyone. You need a different approach for each person.

Q. How do I make feedback feel less awkward without watering it down?

A. Awkwardness usually comes from guessing. When you understand what someone values—and how they process input—you don’t have to dance around the message.

Start with curiosity. Name your intent. Keep it specific and forward-looking.

“It’s important to me that we keep improving—and I think there’s something here we can sharpen together.”

It’s not about softening. It’s about connecting.

Q. What’s one small change I can make to start giving better feedback today?

A. Encourage a daily habit: a simple nudge, reflection, or personalized comment that builds the muscle for real-time feedback.

Start by giving one piece of specific, personal feedback this week. Use a simple prompt:

“One thing I appreciated in that meeting was…” or

“Here’s something I think could make this even stronger…”

Small, consistent moments build trust. That’s what makes feedback stick.

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The Great Coach Paradox

You’re delivering real transformation.

Leaders walk out of your sessions with clarity they didn’t have before. Teams shift. Cultures start to take root. The feedback is glowing. “You really changed how I see myself.” “That session moved the needle.” “We need more of this.”

But despite the impact, you’re still chasing the next contract.

Not because you’re underperforming. Because the coaching industry is mostly familiar with a business model that wasn’t built for how executives actually buy coaching services.

You’ve followed the playbook:

Post consistently on LinkedIn
Sharpen your niche
Build a funnel
Ask for referrals
Host a webinar

It’s not bad advice but it’s solving the wrong problem.

Most advice assures that visibility leads to demand. That if your your branding is on point, or if you have a polished website, clients will come.

But not all visibility is equal.

Social visibility might build awareness. You can be visible as a thought leader—and still be invisible as a solution when a problem hits.

Social posts and personal branding might earn attention. But coaching decisions don’t usually happen while someone scrolls LinkedIn.

👉 They happen in conference rooms after tough feedback.
👉 In 1:1s where a leader admits they’re stuck.
👉 In team meetings where conflict flares up—again.

Those are the moments when coaching is needed. And unless your value is visible in that context, you won’t be the one they call.

Executive buyers aren’t hiring based on who’s posting the most. They’re hiring based on who can solve the thing that’s breaking right now. And in those moments, content isn’t what earns the call, embedded presence is.

So when the next leader, team, or organization hits a moment where coaching could help?

They don’t think of you. Not because you’re forgettable but because your value disappeared the moment the session ended.

Meanwhile, the coaches who are getting those referral calls have figured out how to make their impact visible between sessions. They’ve built systems that keep their insights present when decisions are being made and budgets are being allocated.

That’s the paradox, and the opportunity.

Great coaches aren’t struggling because they’re not good at what they do. They’re struggling because they’re competing with an outdated playbook against coaches who’ve moved to a different game entirely.

This article is not another marketing checklist.

It’s a strategy for how successful coaching businesses actually grow:

One that doesn’t depend on creating more content
One that doesn’t require more hours or more hustle
One that turns your insight into a system—so your presence sticks, your value scales, and your best work becomes your best marketing

Because once your coaching becomes embedded in the daily rhythm of work, referrals become inevitable.

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What Keeps Coaches From Landing Executive Clients

You’ve seen the lightbulb moments. You’ve helped leaders find their voice, navigate transitions, repair trust. The client impact is real.

So why does business growth still feel like a guessing game?

More than likely, it’s not a skills gap. It’s a systems gap, specifically, a visibility gap.

A disconnect between the transformation you create, and how that transformation is remembered, shared, and scaled across the organization.

While most advice is focused on more marketing tactics, other coaches have focused on using systems that make their transformation visible and scalable. They’re not necessarily better coaches, they just understand something about how coaching businesses actually grow that most advice completely misses.

Here’s what’s really going on:

A. The Visibility Trap

Most advice starts here:

Post more. Build your brand. Optimize your website. Define your niche.

This is not bad advice, it’s just not complete. It overlooks that coaching is a relationship to be embedded. It assumes that decision-makers are primarily scanning content feeds, looking for their next coach.

They’re not.

They’re solving urgent problems:

A team that’s unraveling after a reorg
A VP who just got promoted and is struggling to earn trust
A high-potential leader who keeps burning out their team

In those moments, executives don’t care who posted the best leadership quote on LinkedIn.

They’re asking their network: Who can help fix this—and fast?

And most visibility tactics don’t match the moments when buying decisions actually happen.

A well-crafted post might build awareness. But it doesn’t help when a leader turns to HR and says, “We need someone to help this team—fast.”

Because that moment doesn’t happen in public. It happens behind closed doors. In conversations about performance. Tension. Risk.

And unless your coaching has left a visible trail—something that shows up in team interactions, leader behavior, or business results—you’re not top of mind when it counts.

You might get compliments on your insights. But compliments don’t close contracts.

The coaches who do get those calls? They’ve made their presence durable. Their work doesn’t disappear after the session—it stays active inside the team:

In language people repeat
In frameworks teams adopt
In nudges that guide behavior every day

When the next team needs help, they’re not asking “Who do we know?”
They’re saying, “Let’s bring in the person who helped them.”

B. The Referral Reality That No One Talks About

Here’s the stat that should change how you think about business development: Referrals account for 80% of coaching business, yet most strategies don’t actively generate them.

Even worse? Traditional coaching models make referrals harder to earn.

Because your best work happens in private. In confidential 1:1s. Behind closed doors.

The person who brought you in might get a check-in or a progress report. But they don’t experience the change as it happens. They don’t see the tension defused, the clarity sparked, the shift unfold.

And the people around the leader? They might notice something’s different, a steadier presence, a sharper perspective. But they don’t know what caused it.

So when someone asks, “Know anyone who can help this new director?”—your name doesn’t come up. Not because you weren’t effective. But because your impact never became part of the story they could tell.

Your coaching left no visible trail. You delivered the value. You just didn’t deliver it in a way that could be remembered, repeated, or referred.

Compare that to coaches using embedded coaching platforms:

👉 Insight shows up in team meetings—not as theory, but as action.
👉 Language you introduced gets quoted in project updates.
👉 Frameworks you taught shape how decisions get made and feedback gets delivered.

By the time someone says, “We need help,” you’re not just remembered, you’re already part of how the team works.

When referral moments happen, they don’t need an introduction. They’re already in the conversation.

C. What Executive Buyers Interested In Coaching Actually Need

Here’s the truth most coaches never hear:

You’re not just competing with other coaches.
You’re competing with:

Consulting firms that embed behavioral change systems
Internal L&D programs with dashboards and metrics
Platforms that promise scalable development and proof of ROI

These buyers don’t just need to believe you’re effective. They need to prove it to a CFO, a CHRO, or a skeptical board.

They’re looking for:

Behavior change is measured across teams
Engagement data they can report upward
A model that scales across functions and roles—not just individuals

The coaches landing long-term contracts can make their results visible, measurable, and scalable.

They need evidence that your approach creates lasting change—and that it can scale beyond the individual sitting in your sessions.

The coaches winning larger contracts and multi-year relationships aren’t just better at delivery. They’re better at making their delivery demonstrable in ways that analytical buyers can measure and other executives can witness.

🔁 What This All Adds Up To

Coaching works. But it rarely spreads because most coaching models are built for individual impact, not for replication and scalability.

The coaches who crack the growth code understand this: Every engagement has to do two things:

1. Transform the client (which you’re already doing)

2. Create visible proof that transforms the business case for your next engagement

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The Positioning Strategy That Gets Coaches Referred

When exactly does coaching get hired? It’s not when someone is randomly browsing your website or reading a clever post. It’s when there’s pressure, a moment of risk, conflict, or urgency.

Clients don’t hire coaches. They hire help for the moments when something’s about to break.

And yet, most coaching offers still sound like this:

“I coach executives.”
“I work with high-potentials.”
“I help leaders lead.”

These are too vague to be memorable. Too generic to be referred. And too disconnected from the real-world situations that make coaching a business priority.

A. Define the Moment, Not Just the Market

Most advice online tells you to define your niche by role, industry, or demographic:

“I work with VPs in tech.”
“I coach women in healthcare.”
“I support senior executives.”

But those are static categories. They don’t reflect the trigger that actually prompts someone to look for coaching.

No one hires a coach just because a leader has a certain title. They hire one because that leader is:

Struggling to earn trust after a promotion
Derailing a team with unfiltered feedback
Stuck in a cycle of burnout or conflict

Those are the moments when coaching becomes urgent. And if your offer speaks directly to that moment?

You’re not just relevant. You’re essential.

That’s what we call moment-matching—and it’s what makes your offer stick.

🛠 Before & After: The Power of Specific Positioning

Vague Positioning:	Moment-Matched Positioning:
“I coach new executives.”	“I help newly promoted VPs earn trust and lead with confidence in their first 90 days.”
“I support team communication.”	“I help leadership teams rebuild trust after reorgs or feedback breakdowns.”
“I coach high-potentials.”	“I help high-potential leaders stop burning out their teams and start building sustainable influence.”

Getting Your Referral-Ready Messaging Right

Let’s say someone in HR or the C-suite hears: We’ve got a director who’s floundering. Know anyone who can help?

Would your name come up?

Only if your offer passes this test:

Can it be explained in a single, clear sentence?
Does that sentence map to a real, recurring leadership moment?
Would it make someone say, “Yes—we need exactly that.”?

If the answer is no, your referral engine is stalling out—before it ever starts.

Great coaching doesn’t get you referred.

Clear coaching, tied to real moments, does.

💬 Try This: Your Referral Sentence Framework

Write your positioning like this: “When [specific scenario], bring in [your name]—because [the result you help create].”

Examples:

When a newly promoted VP is about to lose their team, bring in Terri, because she builds credibility fast and helps them lead without defensiveness.
When a leadership team’s feedback culture is toxic, call Marcus, he helps rebuild safety without sugarcoating the truth.

If your network can’t say this about you, you’re not just missing leads. You’re missing referrals you already earned.

🔁 The Big Messaging Shift

From “I coach leaders” → To → “I’m the coach you call when ___ happens.”

That’s how you move from being a coach on a list to the coach executives contact, not because you marketed harder, but because you matched your value to a moment that matters.

Why Coaching Sessions Don’t Scale And What Coaches Are Doing Instead

You’ve probably heard this from a client: I wish I had your voice in my head during that meeting.

That’s not just a compliment—it’s a signal.

A signal that the real opportunity for coaching isn’t just in the session. It’s in the moments after—when decisions are made, tension flares up, or feedback is received sideways.

But here’s the problem:

Most coaching model’s do not have a solution and leaves too much to chance.

A. The Costly Gap Between Sessions

Here’s how most coaching works:

You meet with a client.
Spark real insight.
Offer clarity, a framework, a next step.

Then two weeks go by.

In the meantime:

That tricky team dynamic resurfaces.
Pressure builds.
The conversation that needed your voice happens—without it.

And the client?

🤨 They’re left to recall what you said.
🤨 Apply it on their own.
🤨 Hope it still fits the moment.

Meanwhile, your advocates gets no signals. No feedback loops. No proof anything’s happening.

Your value fades—not because the coaching wasn’t good, but because it wasn’t present when it counted.

B. How Embedded Coaching Actually Works On Your Behalf

Now picture this:

On Tuesday morning, just before a tense 1:1, your client gets a nudge reminding them that their teammate values directness—but needs time to process conflict.

Later that day, their team receives a communication tip tied to a pattern you’ve been working on together—delivered inside Slack, where they’re already working.

A week later, the sponsor sees a trendline in team interaction data that signals improved collaboration.

✅ No extra meetings.
✅ No added effort.
✅ Just your coaching—working in the background, reinforcing insight in real time.

That’s embedded coaching. And it doesn’t require more sessions. It just requires systems that carry your insight into the flow of work.

C. How Coaching Platforms Makes It Possible (Without Replacing the Coach)

Cloverleaf is built to reinforce you, between sessions, across teams, and inside the daily rhythm of work.

Here’s how:

Real-time nudges that surface in Slack, email, or Teams based on how each person prefers to give and receive communication, resolve tension, and make decisions.
Layered insights drawn from multiple assessments so your coaching is grounded in multidimensional data, not just personality shorthand.
Coaching visibility metrics like nudge engagement and team insights usage to show that your work is sticking and spreading.
Your brand, not ours, keeping you top of mind, while Cloverleaf runs in the background.

Now, you’re not just showing up once a week. You’re becoming the invisible infrastructure for how the team grows.

🧠 The Big Mindset Shift: You’re not the one who has to be in the room. But your voice still can be.

This is how coaches are reaching more executive clients: Using platforms that use systems that scale their presence without scaling their hours.

How To Engineer Referral Growth

Most coaches rely on word-of-mouth but few actually design for it.

That’s the difference between hoping a past client mentions your name, and building a system where your best work consistently leads to new opportunities.

If you want referrals to become a consistent part of how your business grows, you need a system, one that doesn’t rely on being remembered, but on making your impact recognizable and shareable across the organization.

1. Make the Transformation Shareable

Private 1:1 growth won’t scale unless others see it. Not in outcomes alone, but in behavior they can describe.

From happens when:

Coaching language starts showing up in team conversations.
A framework used in one department becomes common shorthand in another.
One employee resolves a long-standing conflict using an insight from a nudge and shares that story publicly.

What to do: Design your coaching engagements to include a common language or toolset that clients can share and reuse. Use team workshops, written takeaways, or embedded nudges to reinforce these behaviors across the group—not just with your primary client.

2. Activate Internal Advocates

Referrals often flow from your strongest internal supporters—especially when those partners help position your coaching as a solution to bigger goals, not just individual development.

When coaching becomes part of leadership development, onboarding, or cross-functional collaboration efforts, it spreads organically.

Together, they can:

Design a high-potential leadership program with embedded coaching
Partner across HR and strategy teams to tie coaching to business goals
Position coaching as part of broader leadership development, not a side offering

What to do: Identify someone who believes in the work and has access to key initiatives. Collaborate with them to bring coaching into broader contexts: a high-potential program, a regional rollout, or a values-driven culture shift.

They don’t need to “sell” you. They need to help others see how the coaching already supports what the organization is trying to achieve.

3. Use Systems That Keep Insights Active

The most effective referral engines don’t rely on coaches asking for introductions. They rely on systems that keep coaching top of mind, even when you’re not in the room.

This might include:

Monthly opt-in sessions or touchpoints for leaders to connect and share stories
Coaching prompts that align to real challenges (e.g., leading a new team, delivering tough feedback)
Peer-led examples of how coaching insight helped solve a real problem

When people are reminded of the coaching—without extra effort—it becomes easier to talk about and easier to share.
What to do:
Create rhythm and structure that keeps your presence active without requiring more meetings. Use tech, not more time, to stay visible.

4. Support the Business Case Without Needing a Sales Pitch

When budget holders need to renew or expand coaching, they need clarity — not just anecdotes.

Even when the impact is real, decision-makers still need tangible support when advocating for renewal or expansion. What they need is simple: clarity they can point to.

Not a new pitch deck. Not another testimonial. Just signals that the investment is working.

What to do:
Give them what they need to tell the story internally:

Who’s using the coaching tools or content regularly?
Where is momentum building across teams or functions?
What behavior shifts are being noticed or reported?

Make the invisible more visible—and the case for continued investment becomes easier to make.

What This Makes Possible

When coaching shows up outside the session, through frameworks, language, or behavior, it becomes easier to notice, easier to talk about, and easier to spread.

You don’t need to chase leads or craft campaigns. You need to design for recognition.

That’s what turns great coaching into a reliable engine for growth.

3 Steps To Land More Executive Coaching Clients

You don’t need another marketing tactic.

You need a model that makes your coaching easy to see, easy to talk about, and easy to refer—without adding more hours to your calendar.

Here’s how to start building it:

A. Anchor Your Message to the Moments That Trigger Buying Decisions

Take a fresh look at your website, profile, or client pitch.

Ask:

Does this map to a real decision point? Could someone in HR or the C-suite see this and immediately know when to call you?
Would a colleague be able to refer you—without needing to explain what you do?
Does your message focus on the moment coaching becomes essential—or just describe your services?

If your language centers on your identity (“executive coach,” “leadership expert”), shift it. Make it about the problems you solve and the moments that trigger a coaching conversation.

Clear positioning isn’t about clever language.
It’s about making it obvious where you fit, when it matters most.

B. Build a Coaching Offer That Leads Naturally to Expansion

The best offers don’t end with the session. They set up what comes next.

If your coaching creates visible change—and that change gets noticed by others—you won’t need to push for more work. The demand will surface from inside the organization.

Here’s how to structure your offer so it generates new opportunities as part of the experience:

Solve a specific leadership challenge that others are likely to encounter too
Use tools like Cloverleaf to create shared language and surface insight between sessions
End with tangible takeaways—like feedback trends, adoption data, or visible shifts in team behavior

When the value spreads beyond the individual, so do the referrals.

A great offer doesn’t just deliver a result. It invites the next conversation—without needing another pitch.

C. Rethink “Business Development” as Reinforcement

You don’t have to be in sales mode. You do need to be in systems mode.

This isn’t about “selling” more coaching. It’s about structuring engagements so that your work travels further—without chasing new leads.

Instead of this...	Try this...
Writing more content	Letting your insights show up daily through Cloverleaf nudges
Starting every pipeline from scratch	Designing offers that naturally lead to expansion
Waiting until the engagement ends to pitch the next	Providing real-time progress signals that make the case for “What’s next?”

Ask Yourself These 3 Questions:

Where does my coaching create the most visible shift?
How can I stay present between sessions without more effort?
What tools or systems help make that shift repeatable and referable?

If you can answer those with clarity, you’ve already started building a business that can serve executive clients.

🙋 FAQ

Q: Will Cloverleaf replace me or make my coaching feel automated?

A: No. Cloverleaf is a delivery system for coaching. You remain the expert. Cloverleaf simply keeps your perspective present in your client’s workflow, via email, Slack, or Teams between sessions. It’s reinforcement, not replacement.

Q: How do I introduce Cloverleaf without sounding like I’m upselling tech?

A: Don’t present it as an add-on. Make it part of the offer:

“This includes daily nudges and personalized assessments, at no extra charge. It keeps the work moving between our sessions.”

Clients understand this. You’re not selling a tool. You’re providing continuity and context, something most coaching models lack.

Q: I only coach individuals. Does this still apply?

A: Yes, and it makes individual coaching more scalable. Clients get nudges and insights throughout their day, so when they show up to your sessions, they’re already in motion. That momentum makes your time together more effective—and more referable. The impact becomes visible beyond the 1:1.

Q: What if my clients already use other assessments?

A: That’s a strength. Cloverleaf brings multiple assessments into a single dashboard—so instead of disconnected reports, clients get a unified view of how to apply insight. You’re not competing with their tools. You’re helping make them actionable.

Q: How should I price engagements that include Cloverleaf?

A: Build it into the experience. Don’t itemize it as “platform access.” Say: This includes personalized insight nudges, session prep support, and access to multiple assessments. It’s all designed to reinforce growth between our sessions.

This positions you as delivering a complete leadership system, not just a set of meetings.

Q: What’s the best way to start?

A: Start small and strategic. Pick one client or team. Frame a 6-week pilot around a clear challenge—like trust-building after a promotion, or rebuilding alignment post-reorg. Use Cloverleaf from the start, and let the nudges show your value in action.

You don’t need a full-scale launch. You need one engagement that proves you belong in the next one.